I’ve been on the arranged marriage lookout for some time now, and I’ve come to notice a recurring pattern in my experiences that’s starting to get discouraging. Every time I find a profile that looks promising, we connect well, have great compatibility, and even our horoscopes match—everything seems to be going well. But there’s one thing that keeps holding things back: I have a small loan that I took to build a house for my parents. While I’m fully committed to repaying it (I’ve already cleared half, and I plan to settle it in 2-3 years), this financial responsibility has become a dealbreaker for many potential matches.
The irony is that people often admire the fact that I built a house for my parents, appreciating my responsibility and commitment. But despite this praise, they still reject me, citing the same financial concerns. I'm being fully transparent and honest because I believe in establishing a genuine connection. I’m tired of hearing that I’m a genuinely good person, only to be turned away, especially when the expectation is simply to be "a good girl," which I truly am.
It’s starting to feel like this small loan is preventing me from moving forward with good prospects. Has anyone faced a similar situation? How can I present this in a way that alleviates concerns without letting it define my future? Would love some practical advice on how to navigate this hurdle without losing out on good connections. Thanks in advance!
