How much did you spend on your wedding?
This is probably the most personal question I can ask but trying to level set my expectations on the big fat South Indian wedding I will be having this year
So I've been courting a woman I like for the past 3 months. Things were going amazing.
We had a serious chat about finances. And a crude topic came up wedding spending - she had a budget of x cr in mind. And I come from a humble background though I can spend money I don't feel it's worth it.
I told her that I can spend anywhere from 30-50 lakhs and that is also a stretch for me.
She was ready to compromise on everything but a wedding. I was ready to give her everything except a dream luxurious wedding. It’s a deadlock. Most likely it is going to be a no. Damn 😔
If she is looking to spend X cr in her wedding, she gonna suck you dry later in life bruv
3m is too early to gauge someone, fyi
+1
She doesn't want a marriage, she wants a wedding
Very easy for such materialistic people to walk away from good marriages
You dodged a bullet. Move on and find someone else.
i feel sad for the guy who will marry her. must have one fucked up karma to end in that family.
You didn’t write clearly who she is expecting to spend. But if she is openly telling you to foot the Bill, or to spend 50-50 on her wished crore+ target, then it is clearly an unwise woman you are talking to, OR, may be the financial status is just too different. If the financial gap is just too wide, these things should have been discussed first thing in the talks. Anyway, you know well where is headed, so Good Luck
bro is cooked, run.
Bro said he comes from a humble background and can stretch to spend 30-50 lakhs 🤣🤣
I guess I was wrong in thinking that I come from humble background as I can spend 10 lakhs max.
That puts me in below poverty line? 🤷
This is probably the most personal question I can ask but trying to level set my expectations on the big fat South Indian wedding I will be having this year
If you are planning to get married what estimated budget do you have. Are you taking any loans. Give your thoughts
I am going to married on 23 nov and my budget is 8 lac approx . My wedding budget won't cross my annual income
No one has ever received an award for best wedding. Don't kill yourself with debt.
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