Unmarried men, what is that you seek in your to-be spouse?

Share your list. But Only unmarried women We did a men survey with huge response rate : https://grapevine.in/post/808462ef-8ae0-4269-aaa3-c683ba1194bb

A couple of other posts are on what unmarried men / women look for in their potential spouses. Married folks, based on your experience, what advice would you give people as they are going through the journey of figuring out the right partner.

What are some points to take care of when getting married through an arranged marriage setup?

To all those guys who have decided to stay unmarried for their whole life.... What's the reason ?????

Anybody here who's in their late 20's and family is pressuring them to get married but you're not mentally ready for the responsibility because maybe first you want to achieve something or be in a better place mentally or financially. For Indian families marriage is just a checkpoint on their long list of responsibilities like science in school, btech in college, gov vs pvt job and stuff. I guess marriage is much more than just a wedding. If you're not mentally ready to have a partner reasons could be multiple like maybe you want to achieve something before tying knot or maybe you want to be at a better place mentally or monetary. Honestly i dont know how to frame this question I just need to know the perspectives of married as well unmarried people or maybe any advice. I'm 27 btw 🫂

The post seems to be from a Doctor and the first half sounds more like you're wasting your life if you're not having sex or kids. Like there's no purpose in life if you aren't getting this. (And that's how India made 130+ crore earthlings!) 33M here and these points sounded fascinating when I was 25-26, but not anymore. Except for the EMI part everything else looks like a blessing instead of being in a bad marriage. If you're in your late 30s and unmarried, how has it been for you? What does future and "purpose" mean to you at this point of life?

I collected this information based speaking with victims of false 498a on different social media platform. I also researched r/legaladviceindia, quora, etc for this compilation of list. See it as arranged marriage best practices of marrying Indian woman. 1. Avoid single children daughter. An elder brother is good or any brothers. Having brother helps her to understand men's issues and men's temperament. 2. If woman's father is politically connected, lawyer, police, or some high position, they will show who is the boss. Most of 498a are initiated because woman's father asked her to do. 3. if the woman's mother is the head of the family and the mother disrespects her husband, avoid the family. Because the woman is very much influenced by her mother after marriage. The mother is going to teach the same to her daughter. You do not take that risk. 4. She is an attention seeking person. Run. She will do anything for spotlight including filing false 498a and get some limelight from friends and relatives. 5. Don't take dowry. If she asks you money for her mom, dad, or her bro, reject her. 6. Carefully observe, how she treats others. If she does not treat service workers respectfully but treat you well, she is not a good person. 7. If she accidentally discloses that she is struggling with depression and other mental health problem, avoid her. If anything happens to her after marriage due to her mental health condition, you would go to prison. As Robert Greene said, "avoid unlucky and unhappy people. There is no reversal to this law". You cant fix broken people. Don't waste your life trying to do that. 8. A woman who hates her father. This is a big NO NO. 9. Liars and dishonest people. If you find a small lie prior to marriage, I say run. Because what you found is a small lie. What you did not find is more than that. 10. If she says she does not how to cook, get rid of her. Cooking is a necessary skill. Both men and women should know. She did not put any effor

Seeking advice from married individuals who have/ want children I’m 26 right now. Should I start looking for partners now or wait till around 30 once I’m financially stronger. Currently 22lpa - Mumbai

Men in tech who are already earning high salaries. Have you married women earning well or housewife or earning very less compared to you(maybe in non-tech). Does you spouse who warns help in your day to day expenses or big expenses(trips,car,gifts,etc) or you take care of most of expenses? And non married men with high salary what you prefer. How is life for men with either of these. P.S - This is just to get an idea how life and money comes into picture for a couple, I respect all categories of men and women.

Dating has become the norm for relationships today, but many don't realize that it's a relatively recent development, prevalent in Western society for only about a century, and it's already causing societal issues. Previously, Indian arranged marriages were standard (different from forced marriages). Families would arrange meetings between their daughters and another family's sons. If they liked each other, they would soon plan the wedding, marry, have sex, and start families. Today, individuals are left to find their own partners. If you don't find someone in high school, university, or work, your chances of finding a partner diminish. There's also less incentive for marriage, as sex no longer requires marriage or even dating, leading to more people pursuing sex directly. This has created a skewed dynamic where fewer men pursue women due to competition, turning to porn instead, while women face exploitation by men who have abundant choices. Ultimately, near 28-30 both genders rush to the arranged marriage system to get them a partner while having their feet dipped on dating apps. In the US, This has lead to decreased marriage rates and, consequently, lower birth rates since most births occur within marriages. A decline in families results in a decreased population, putting more pressure on younger generations to support an aging population. Western nations, therefore, rely heavily on immigration, causing additional challenges. Increased single motherhood also correlates with higher crime rates, drug use, loneliness, mental health issues, and suicides P.S. I'm young and dating too. Just thoughts for a conversation on what the implications of dating for us as a society could be.