If you wanna go for arrange marriage, get married now, or atleast start looking. It's disgusting but the arranged marriage scene works like a market, and the value tends to drop the closer you're to 30. Options decrease as age goes up.
If you wanna go for love marriage, find someone you love and chill.
Woman's fertility is highest between 23-25, not too bad between 25-28. Beyond 30, a woman is doomed on child bearing. Beyond 35, be ready for a mentally challenged kid and other complications in your health. Men age much slower compared to women on child bearing. No matter how much feminists would like to whitewash facts, these are biological truths. Modern women want men with 3 years age difference at Max. Whichever way you look at it, you are heading towards the ineligible age bracket for marriage very fast. You marry only if you want to have kids. Otherwise there is no point of marriage. The "companionship" nonsense that modernity quotes as an alternate purpose of marriage is overrated.
Agree on age bearing. I don’t think so anyone was trying to be feminists here. You gave a blanket statement. Not everyone wants kid. Don’t know if you know but one can also adopt. I know happy couples in their 40s who decided to not have kids. Better to not have baby of someone you don’t love than marrying just for the sake of baby. I hope everything is good with you cos the last sentence makes me worried. Take care :)
Can't it normalised in society to not have kids if we don't, as in case we can't find suitable till child bearing age, why to pass on trauma to next generation..and India is already on top in terms of population. Also adopting is I think acceptable only if you are making enough money to shut up relatives mouth :)
Guys there is a biological reason behind this
Only read if you want to have babies
My parents have started talking about my marriage and I am only 23 rn.
They are pressurising to get married by the time I’m 25. I feel like I’m a kid even today
I haven’t even travelled yet 🥲, If my +1 comes I’d have to take her to t...
“You should get married on time”
To the married folks, would it be different if you would have married later in life? From a personal or objective POV, what’s your take
32+ M here and not yet married.
Got married at 26. If i get a time machine, will do it by 24. There is a quote by ashneer, where he says, 30's ...
Fuck , what a waste of weekend.
story -
I am 27 years old and i am not rich enough like grapevine people. I earn 9 LPA and doing remote job. So parents started looking for girl for arrange marriage. So there is program arranged in our ...
No ill intentions to all the other folks suggesting you not to marry until your job pays you x LPA. Leave them. ...
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