How bad can a guy get lonely?

Hey man, I can relate with you on lot of things. It ain't easy, it always feels like no matter what you do, being your true self, you'd never vibe with anyone.

I have been there, I haven't fully recovered truly. But, the way I am trying to solve this is -

1. Try to connect with whatever friends you have
2. Try to talk to the acquaintances and see if there's any common point based on which you'd like to build the relationship
3. Dropping my pride/sense of entitlement. I was always like, why very few people wish me on birthday, why no one asks me to roam around with them during weekends etc etc. I start doing the opposite. I don't think what they can do for me, I see what I can do for them. So, if I want to go out, I'd check with someone who I believe would enjoy something like that. Across interactions, I'd Try to take interest in what they are doing, find ways to help them out.

All these things aren't easy, like DSA, you'd have to put lot of inputs initially to get some result. Once you get to an inflection point, you'd be able to get better and better.

Oh and yes, what I found out are -

1. Don't lose your self confidence, if you yourself don't respect/enjoy your own company, others can see it and they'd not enjoy being with you

2. Don't be so much involved in others lives that you forget your own life goals and priorities.

Give it time and be cheerful that you are taking steps to be better.

I wish you all the best!

Instead of chasing girls you should be chasing success - start by getting into a better company than Wipro

Hear Premanand ji

Change only happens when the pain of how you are right now is more than the pain of changing yourself..

I hope you get what I am saying..

Live long and prosper 🙌🏻

When is your birthday? Apart from that, try finding someone lowkey, who matches your thought process, someone from your community or office . You have to talk! No one else can spoon feed you in a relation. Go meet the team, Try sharing your thoughts(baby steps at a time)!

Register on matrimonial site
Also, you need to make an effort to talk to people. Atleast can start with teammates

First thing, you need to talk to someone, it doesn't matter whether you know them or not. Go for paid counselling or explore the free Employee Assistance Program or confidential and independent counselling at your company? Many IT/Tech companies offer this assistance to their employees and don't bother about what happens if your managers come to know, They won't know and even if they do, nothing changes. You will continue to get the same amount of work. Second, you will be surprised to know that the majority of people don't have lots of friends, just 1-2 they are close to. In your organization, if you have communities like CSR, sports, fun activities, book club whatever it is, hit the join button. You will meet people there.
At this age making new friends is a process that requires a lot of effort and consistency.Taking initiative and proactively engaging with potential people can win you friends :). Many will not like it and call you "chape", and such people will drop off, but stay consistent with the process and you will end up with 1-2 good friends. Don't put a gender filter for now, focus on finding someone to talk to or building a small circle of people who are nice to you. Do not hold yourself from exploring places and things, by yourself,.Go to movies, malls and other places. You never know, who you will bump into:).

Arre my team is spread across India..some are from Pune Bengal odisha.. I'm from the Chennai office where there is no one in my team. I go to the office alone and sit alone..nothing yaar..I don't even know the reason I exist..I just exist as a body nothing else. Nobody even cares whether I exist or not except my mom and very few others. Loneliness is increasing day by day..I think ppl like me don't belong to this planet..or some cursed ones to be born.. we are the largest population in the world and yet can't even get a friend to whom I can share my thoughts.. maybe it's because of my looks people reject me..

Try working for a cause . Try working for Dharma.

Firstly, I appreciate you spoke your heart out
Secondly, being myself a single that feeling of being alone I can understand that And then you are doing a great job, you are strong, confident and independent.

Yeah about hope, you have you and your mother and you are handling everything well shows that you are doing good for yourself. And please don't let social media fool you and don't let other people define your happiness. And I really mean it when I say this happiness do come from small things in life.

And an important thought I would like you to inculcate - appreciate you are alone. Having no friends are better than having fake friends.