WobblyBurrito
WobblyBurrito

I have asked out 3 men in my life, at different stages of life, all rejected me.

What is up with this streak, what is it I am not able to get right

7d ago
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WobblyDonut
WobblyDonut

Never ask a man out. Ever. Build your life and men will ask you out. You are not getting the biology right. Men are wired to chase.

JazzyNarwhal
JazzyNarwhal

🙂 We heard you Andriana Tate.

SleepyJellybean
SleepyJellybean

Speak for yourself

SquishyTaco
SquishyTaco

God has someone special for u just wait for the right time he would come automatically

MagicalHamster
MagicalHamster

Meanwhile god:

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SqueakyCupcake
SqueakyCupcake

I have usually seen men don't get interested if the women directly ask them out or tell them that she likes them.

Try indirectly, maybe start with being friends and see if it works out.

DizzyDumpling
DizzyDumpling

+1

MagicalHamster
MagicalHamster

Of course be a friend/know first, if someone directly ask me out, mai khud sochunga kahi koi scam na ho,at worse ager organ stealing gang se nikli to, I love my kidneys 👀.

TwirlyPancake
TwirlyPancake

Maybe you are asking out the committed one’s

WobblyBurrito
WobblyBurrito

So they could be lying about their single status?

SnoozyBanana
SnoozyBanana

What's your score on dating apps, this would shed some more light!

WobblyBurrito
WobblyBurrito

Not on dating apps, I believe in real world

ZippyJellybean
ZippyJellybean
IBM7d

There’s a score on dating apps?

SleepyJellybean
SleepyJellybean

Same here. Genuinely with all my heart with the intention of getting married with the intention of having kids with the intention of growing old and dying I her hands I ask 2 women in my 31 years of life. 1 women said no after 1st date. I was 24. I went home I was all alone I cried my heart out (tears started flowing as I write this). I couldn’t sit at home I went out for a movie met with an accident though a minor one. Most painful moment in my life.

After 6 years at 30 years old I asked another women out with pure intentions she outright said no. I waited another year and asked again she said no. Went home cried my heart out.

The thing is it’s not that I look ugly or can’t speak. I dated a handful of women but I never got that feeling with these women what I got when I first saw these 2 amazing ladies.

Why life has to be so painful?

WobblyBurrito
WobblyBurrito

I really understand your place. I don't even believe in marriage, but this man felt marriage worthy to my guts

Didn't want to take any steps that would lower my respect, hence backed off. It still hurts to the core. He lives normally, as if this never meant anything to him

FloatingUnicorn
FloatingUnicorn

Ur not hot enough

MagicalHamster
MagicalHamster

Try this next time

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QuirkyCupcake
QuirkyCupcake

Your Gender?

WobblyBurrito
WobblyBurrito

Not man 😖

WobblyCupcake
WobblyCupcake

3 is nothing keep trying... 3 is just warm up set

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