QuirkyDumpling
QuirkyDumpling
Student

Ladies of grapevine tell me would you like to get cold approached by a stranger in India.

Title. I have been following pickup artist from India as well as abroad where they teach men to cold approach a woman and ask her for a date. My college although it's a tier 1 is in tier 2 city of India which doesn't has a liberal culture like Mumbai and Delhi. My question to you all ladies is that would it be okay if a decent looking guy(which I am) cold approach you in public and ask you on date(not in direct but in subtle way) without being a creep.

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BouncyCupcake
BouncyCupcake

‘Without being a creep’ is very subjective. All the best though for your endeavours and update us on the responses received on your approach 🤗

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka
Hinge22mo

Exactly, definition of creep for one woman is different from another

GroovyBoba
GroovyBoba

Seems creepy to me. And I'm a dude. Not to mention injurious to health. She may be married or underage or her 6'5 crazy bf may be right behind her. But take your shots and something something yolo

SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

you said Pickup artist ?? ARTIST ???? 🤣

SwirlyTaco
SwirlyTaco

Spelt it wrong. Should be Artiste.

Bespoke Artisanal PickUps.

SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

I googled it and that thing actually exists. A pickup artist is a community whose goal is seduction and sexual success. They have wikipedia pages and many articles written on them. It's a legit thing lol

SquishyNugget
SquishyNugget

No. How do u describe being decent?

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit
Tekion22mo

Why no? Can you explain that?

SquishyNugget
SquishyNugget

What if I talk to this person and this person seems out to be creep or a crazy stalker.

Since I was the one who reacted I might become the target.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
CARS2422mo

Isn't this post for women, so men would DM them?

I think everyone is expecting for comments from women from this post.

This maybe is the basic exercise for the post creator 😂

QuirkyDumpling
QuirkyDumpling
Student22mo

Arre nhi yaar it's genuine. I want to know their opinion. I want to do all this in my real life not on social media through text and all. Right now I am hitting the gym, focusing on my soft skills as well as striking some random conversation with women to overcome my anxiety without having an agenda to make her my girlfriend.

QuirkyDumpling
QuirkyDumpling
Student22mo

Although I look good but I don't have confidence around women hence I am doing all this and I also made two female friends who I am looking for guidance towards dating and stuffs😂😂

SqueakyPancake
SqueakyPancake
Swiggy22mo

You know honestly, I wouldn’t mind being cold approached by a stranger and asked out on a date in a decent way because tbh dating apps are of no use. But but but, sadly, given how you end up reading news everyday, my first instinct would always be to say no and I actually would end up saying no because it’s better to be safe than sorry, which is a very sad thing tbh.

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit
Tekion22mo

You are dicy and you are likely to say no in that situation. The best way is to get comfortable first then ask for a date or number. In this situation, how likely are you gonna say yes?

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit
Tekion22mo

In my experience, 90% of the time they will say no but as a man keep trying. You never know that no will change to yes.

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka
Hinge22mo

Ye 90s Bollywood grand abhi bhi follow hota hai?

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit
Tekion22mo

We are all grown up watching Bollywood movies so it has influence on us.

SwirlyTaco
SwirlyTaco

Can you share your top 3 pickup approaches.

Will help the men learn from a master and the ladies can comment better with context of your approach.

SwirlyUnicorn
SwirlyUnicorn
Amazon22mo

No

GigglyLlama
GigglyLlama
Student22mo

hoping this is a troll post lmao

WobblyDonut
WobblyDonut

If you are very hot, you can cold approach the women and no one will get creeped out. If you aren’t hot, there’s high risk, high reward :)

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