Life has never been kind to me when it comes to relationships
Never had a a girlfriend, well kind of had sparks but most of the time, it was never mutual. I really loved a girl through my school days and till mid of college and I thought we were close, but that was just me and never her. Lost faith in love after this and never gave a try after this in college or in early career stage and thought I will just focus on career and settle for a arranged marriage after I am stable Now I am stable, and when I start looking out for matches in Matrimony sites,it's even more depressing. It's an arranged marriage, so need to look out for same cast and yeah , horoscope also comes in to picture and if these sort out, I am left with a choice of say 10 girls of which 6 I like but they might have different priorities and may be 1 would match and after talking, it falls too. I was not too serious about getting married but , I have reached a stage where most of my friends have got married or have kids, so at the end of the day my path also looks to lead to the same stop. If there has been 1 thing my entire life has been unlucky with, it is this...
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Take a 10-min AI interview to qualify for numerous real jobs auto-matched to your profile 🔑I really think that after 10-20 years India is going to have a huge propertion of male population who would be unmarried, never got any love and have become indifferent to pain and misery of women. They are not gonna he sadistic or criminal but just that they would be very much nonchalant to opposite gender in their day to day life and it's really gonna make life hard for even girls also..
An equal percentage of female population would be unmarried as well?
Bro listen to me, never even had a girl friend, I don't know what girls talk even with guys, I don't have friends , and it's not like I'm light skinned and above average heighted, ab luck nhi tha saath. Im an introvert but I learn quickly agar ek gf hoti to my personality could have changed but wo bhi nhi gya, by chance in my school college strength of girls was low when I was there and ab wohi school college me there are lot of girls. I never was even this close to a girl to share about my personal stuff, aaj tk whatever small talks I had were formal only.
Also, I'm in a tier 1 city if you want to know, so it's all about luck, u have to be at the right place at right time. Although girls have a unique nature they can see through a person's mindset most of the times, but how and whom they fall in love with only they know, bro i too feel sad at times, also i don't have a friend circle who can introduce me to opposite gender. I have social anxiety so I don't go to social places at all. Brother i could totally relate to whatever u are saying.
Well one day we might get what we are seeking but it is hard going through this phase, i know it's not the end of the world but it's not easy to face this
Yeah luck plays a major role.
