PeppyBiscuit
PeppyBiscuit

She’s stuck in my head

So i’ve been Noticing her for 1.5 months now.. she notices back like hell.. she is Indian from south.. im from NCR ..working in HYD.. she’s kinda cute.. spiritual, all Green flags.. but i don’t want to take risk as she is senior 1 year.. one wrong step can ruin things.. now I’m trying to not think about her.. but she’s stuck in my mind like nothing else.. seeking help.. any suggestions to get out of this !!

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WigglyDonut
WigglyDonut
Meesho12mo

Don't hookup where you vlookup

JazzyDumpling
JazzyDumpling

Hell yeah. Stayed clear of co workers that I encountered on dating apps.

GroovyPanda
GroovyPanda

she is indian from south aur konse nationalities rehte south mei? 😢

PeppyBiscuit
PeppyBiscuit

South Indian bolne se log offend hojate hai yrr.. I don’t endorse such thing so i’ve put Indian first

GroovyPanda
GroovyPanda

Wow, nayi chiz sikhi, sorry mb

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka

Have you ever talked to her? Her noticing back means nothing unless she says so

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
CARS2412mo

Tell her to get married and invite you for her wedding, shaanti milega bhai aapko

If biryani is in the wedding, we'll be there

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
CARS2412mo

The message is for @xgrapeviner

ZestyPenguin
ZestyPenguin

Not a good idea to hook up at work. If this is an eternal love, no matter where you guys ate, ho jaata hey.

But eternal tho nahi lag raha aapke post and comments se. South ho ya north ho, roti ho ya biryani ho ya rice ho, yeh sab kahaan farak padhta hey bhai.

Unless you are thinking ki ‘indian from south’ ke saath hone se woh aapko sirf rice khilayegi, kyunki khaana tho woh banaayegi? Is it? Khud apne liye roti sabzi bana lena and usko bhi khilaana and thoda rice bhi kha lena mil baant ke. ‘Khaana banaane wali’ mentality ke chakkar me ho kya bhai abhi tak 🤭

PeppyBiscuit
PeppyBiscuit

Bhai,, sarcasm smjhte ho?? Btw south North doesn’t matter for me.. i want a girl who is more smarter than me.. not in terms of LPA, or bhai baat khana bnane ki .. hnn bhai khana vohi bnaegi .. mujhe woke ban ne ka koi shok nhi hai!!

ZestyPenguin
ZestyPenguin

Are wah! Mubaarkaa mubaarka 👏

QuirkyCupcake
QuirkyCupcake

Bro, I had a similar thing at the office, people here know about my 13k steps story with her.And everyone here who suggested that I should not waste my time were right about it. All my energy got wasted, and she left the office and joined another company. Didn't even tell me her last working day. Got to know from teams.

PeppyBiscuit
PeppyBiscuit

What’s the story bhai share!! Or attach ss

QuirkyCupcake
QuirkyCupcake

Summarizing in 3 lines

  1. I had a huge crush on my senior, and she likes me too. I asked her out, and she didn't say yes or no. Surprisingly, she used to have deeper conversations after that.
  2. Typical bollywood story thought she needed time(since she didn't confirm) and used to spend a lot of everything on her thinking. Eventually, she'll say yes.
  3. She left the office recently, END of the story. No calls, no msgs, nothing she left just like that .

Moral of the story: You never know what a woman is thinking. Don't get over excited. At the office, do your work and go home. Don't fall for any bengali woman.

SnoozyBoba
SnoozyBoba
Zomato12mo

If the eye contact is longer than usual, she is interested.
If and when you talk and if she asks questions showing interest in your personal life , she is interested.
Also there are some signs from body language: touching her neck, playing with hair and biting lips. If this you can notice. Go ahead and ask her out.

PeppyBiscuit
PeppyBiscuit

Eye contact is like… from me if its 3/10… from her its 8.5/10.. idk if she’s psycho or what but her eyes spellbind me like no one can..

SnoozyBoba
SnoozyBoba
Zomato12mo

Strike a conversation in pantry on general office stuff. Not trying is not worth.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
CARS2412mo

Isn't this the same post ~2 months ago?

PeppyBiscuit
PeppyBiscuit

No same bhai,, Now i want to get out of this.. that time i was asking to approach.. but considering many things decided not to proceed but this infatuation seems last longer than expected

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle

Make her friend first

SillyMuffin
SillyMuffin
EY12mo

I would suggest going for a coffee with her respectfully and talk with your heart like 'I don't know if you noticed, but i have a crush on you from the time i saw you. I know you are my team leader, i have tried a lot to sustain myself but i am getting depressed day by day. I know things won't be the same moving forward. Let me know what you think of me. '

Additionally, try to talk about things which they like the most. Every lady likes when you attract their beauty. Make sure you choose your words wisely.

Do not overthink, she will not do anything against you even if things went bad.

Leave me a message if things works out!

PrancingPenguin
PrancingPenguin

You seems experienced 😀

PeppyBiscuit
PeppyBiscuit

May be.. will msg you for reference 🤣🤣 be ready bhai to support in that too

SillyPretzel
SillyPretzel
TCS12mo

Vicks ki goli lo khich khich dur karo !!

QuirkyMarshmallow
QuirkyMarshmallow

Bro just don't
trust me on this one 🥲

PeppyBiscuit
PeppyBiscuit

mean I shouldn’t frgt.. or not ask?

QuirkyMarshmallow
QuirkyMarshmallow

Just do your work
Get paid
And go home

Office affairs never turn fruitful.

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