HeftySpy78
HeftySpy78

Worried about career and future....

Can someone help me on my dilemma and what should I do and follow ? My head is bursting out of tension, and I am just going mad being scared about my future.

So I(23M) am currently working in a big product based company, and it's office is located in hyderabad. With the recent RTO push, I will have to move there soon. The thing is, I don't want to to move to hyderabad. Many reasons to it. Firstly, I know no body in the city, like have just one friend in that city, and office peeps. Living alone like this is what I'm afraid of (I've never lived away from home). Secondly, I am a pure vegetarian, and hyderabad smells non-veg from road to road. Cafe's restaurants, that stinking non-veg everywhere. Lastly, my parents will be left alone here at my hometown, and they'll not prefer moving with me coz they'll become even more alone in an unknown city.

I am thinking to change my job and get to Bangalore, where I do have more friends and family, and Bangalore doesn't stink as well (non-veg is present in cafe's and restaurants everywhere, but it's way much bearable). The last problem still remains. An added problem here is the current economy and recession (I know India has lesser chance of recession, but IT companies are based out of US, so layoff risk continues).

I also have a plan to go for higher education, in India itself. But moving away is still an issue, with an added financial burden, as there will be no one earning. And I really feel that getting that second degree is necessary.

I am supeeerrrr stressed on what should I do, and with each passing day and I'm able to do nothing, it's just stressing me out so much. Anybody who faced similar situations ? What did you do and how did you cope with it ?

17mo ago
BruisedPit19
BruisedPit19

I have worked in Hyderabad for considerable time and I vehemently disagree on it "smelling" non-veg road to road. How many times have you been there? Are you sure you have smelled around a considerable area to sample an entire city statistically to draw this inference?

I am a pure vegetarian as well and found Hyderabad quite welcoming and with good vegetarian food options. Further, I understand the anxiety of stepping outside your hometown the first time and away from your parents as well, but I don't feel it will be any easier in Bangalore unless you have close relatives to be with your parents there.

It is more of a problem with you unfortunately if you have for some reason decided to stereotype a city on limited experiences. I am sorry if I am coming off as a bit rude, but Hyderabad has been good to me and I think I owe it enough to defend its odour, sorry honor.

BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

+1 Hyderabad is beautiful city with even better weather. They have conjusted it with metro and flyovers - but much welcoming city than Bangalore. Saying from experience of staying in both cities, rather than speculating

AlphaGrindset
AlphaGrindset

@BiryaniEnthu name gives it away ЁЯШВ

SupportStaff
SupportStaff
Others17mo

What a protected childhood you have had my friend.. these are even above what people usually call first world problems... These issues are something that practically everyone at your age faces, and you seem to be over whelmed... For your sake and for your growth as a person, i pray that you face the real world more and more

pareshan
pareshan
Cred17mo

No joke. Paper pr ek if-else ka flow chart banao with pros and cons for each move.

Be honest with your listings. Evaluate your decision. Take a leap and never think of it again. Mind has tendency to inflate chaos. Reorder it on paper to find peace.

It works for me.

pareshan
pareshan
Cred17mo

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ElonMusk_
ElonMusk_
X.com17mo

Change your nose not job

BiryaniEnthu
BiryaniEnthu

Where did you picture this smelling non veg place without being in the city?

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