Personal Finance Queer POV

I'm a queer person in their mid 20's new to adulting. Most of the personal finance thumb rules/advice/content out there is centered around a cis het perspective and that way of life - it gets confusing to think about wealth, saving, FIRE, etc. without having any relatable reference point. Are there any queer folks here who have come across similar confusion and how have you navigated through it? Just wanted some insights on how you think about money and life goals