I remember visiting a married friend who has a 4-year-old. We were casually sitting and chatting when that little monster dived to get her father's phone and started running. The father politely asked her to give it back (new phone things, which I can relate to), he kept pleading, trying different names.
My friend and I were laughing because it seemed cute.
Out of the blue, he shouts so loud that we froze.
The little girl stopped, she was so scared that she peed right there and started crying.
The father took the phone and stomped into his bedroom.
It took me a little time to understand what happened, though the mother was fast enough to react and console the child. But this really scarred me. I don't know what's right and wrong here. The kid shouldn't be running like that, but neither should a kid be subjected to such fear.