Common bro, it happens Chill. Live in the present, thats one way of forgetting past and staying happy. Be conscious on everything you do day to day. Keep yourself distracted. Remember what is in your hands right now, you can't change the past. DM me whenever you feel low, i am always there to help you out.

How can someone be concious and distracted at the same time?

Senior Consultant

Conscious about present, distracted about thoughts from past

Data Analyst

Pcch, it happens, take care of yourself and your family from now-onwards, spend more time and value them more.

Category Manager

Recently I'm getting struck by the thought of this. While walking by the road and seeing older people and thinking about how my parents would be there and what would happen to me if I lose them. It's such a terrible experience that I couldn't fathom what one is going through in times like this. I couldn't imagine myself living with them. It sends shiver down the spine just by imagining this.  
 Hope you get strength to overcome this.

Software Engineer

2 years ago my mom left me as if I was not needed. She always had in mind that her son is everything. I felt so bad and I used to talk less with her . But I used to always cry about why I am not ne...

2 years ago my mom left me as if I was not needed. She always had in mind that her son is everything. I felt so bad and I used to talk less with her . But I used to always cry about why I am not needed. 

Today my mom is no more and I feel so bad that I couldn't do much 😭.

Help me to come out from this.

Help me to come out from this.- Grapevine

I feel my life is extremely difficult after demise of my beloved father at the age he should have  not left us this early he was 51 and now without him my life is just extremely difficult in all aspects  , people around me , relatives , career aspect marriage aspect future everything just scares me and  i feel i cannot reach out to anyone for my help not even my mother with my problems I feel if i reach out to anyone they just shut it like dont overthink , please stop with your negativity I just dont know how to get on with life He was like shield to us Now i dont know even me , my mom , my sibling has changed like anything Nothing feels good anymore

Loosing a parent

Analyst 

MOM said this line to me, today again. 

There have been countless times, when I have heard this from throughout my childhood. And then, people ask me why you don't love your mom. 

I don't feel bad anymore as I have accepted this sentence for life. But it made me understand that, words like these can kill anyone's self confidence, moral and belief to stay alive. 

I am thankful to my mom, that she made me strong enough in my early days that when someone says anything harsh to me now, I don't give a fuck. 

Guys, always be wise to choose the words you speak to someone, even if you are in immense rage. 

I am using this platform to share this, because I can never tell this to anyone else. Even, I haven't told this to my girlfriend who has been with me for the past 4 years. 

SPREAD LOVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN ❤

"Wish, I never had you"

Product Manager

So I have made a similar post on grapevine before but doing it again because I have nothing else to do. 
Currently working in one of the big 4 passed out from a circuital branch in newer IIT. Have been dealing with anxiety since my jee preparation days . On meds since then . Fucked up my college life . Didn’t make any good friends . Didn’t study for placement as I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do. Now working here feels like hell. Work starts at 11 and keep on going till 9 sometimes more than that . Thinking of doing a switch but fucked up interviews . Thought I should restart my life gave gre but didn’t get good marks . 
Feel like a failure . I cry a lot . Today thought I will do something productive but just kept crying . Called my father but he said why do I keep coming back to him with a sad face . Told him to fuck off and cut the call. 
Haven’t been to gym in a month cause my work doesn’t give time and I am too tired to wake up early . I am just reduced to my room sometimes I feel I should just jump from the balcony and end everything but I know I am coward cannot do that. 

Has anyone ever went through the same ? Will it get any better ? And yes I am taking therapy so no need to recommend that . Rant over 😞

Hate my life a rant !!

Data engineer

I'm 21 m. Had a 9 months old relationship with a girl who's 6 months older. It was the best 9 months of my life. We connected on so many levels that I never thought would happen with me at such a young age. 

Recently, she broke up with me. It was not our mistake. Her mother isn't well (from a long time, and I knew that) and her last wish is to see her daughter getting married. 

Forcefully, she had to admit this and told me everything. And told me that we need to end this. 

It's been 3 weeks, and there's minimal contact between us. 

I'm a final year college student, not getting placements, too much pressure from family. I can't think about anything. Feels like all of this is eating me up. We had very secure future plans, but everything is over now. I don't know what to do. 

I try very hard to stay on track, but her thoughts are eating me up. I've started meditation, therapy and everything, but nothing is working the way I thought it would do. 

She was the one that gave me assurance that everything will be fine. Her presence was the most peaceful thing I had, but now, there's nothing. 

Help me, please. 

PS: please don't judge me the way I am. I'm trying to be normal as much as possible but nothing's working.

Need urgent help.

Hello I am a 26 years old female who works in a IT company, but meanwhile I am stuck with my life neither my job nor my relationship is going well, I am actually not so "relationship" type i am kinda marriage type of person, ❤️ I love someone who is from middle class and I am ready to settle if he is earning 40k even but what matters is love and understanding of both of person,

Recently I am facing issues in my relationship like he is ready to leave me if the situation is not in future, and while I am not getting any future security from him i really feel anxious and getting panic attacks each day, I am not able to sleep properly 

Meanwhile, I am saying no to projects in my company and I am not showing any willingness to work further, honestly no body is there to guide me what should I do, my mom she supports me but I am unable to sleep properly in night and each and everyday I am crying and crying, not eating properly, i really need ur suggestion guys 

Please  if anyone can suggest me or anything i should know i will be very grateful.........

Need suggestion

Systems Engineer

Welcome to Office Gossip's Private Community

One week ago, everything was going well in my life. I had a good job, my mum was happy, Papa proudly told everyone, my son is a software engineer, there was no tension for my younger brother's education, we were thinking of buying all the things this diwali like for mum ,gold,for dad, bike.3 days before, my manager asked me for resignation and gives me poor ratings because management told him to do that. Since that day, my deep happiness has disappeared. Mummy is sad, papa is sad, I am not even feeling good. Today I went to the bank to take a loan for my brother's education. When I came to talk he rejected me.
I reached the station and was filled with sorrow. I kept writing this post. If I ever come back to my life, I will remember this time when I look at this post. And if everything has gone wrong, then I will accept my fate.

What kind of problems come in life?

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I am a fresher doing b.tech in cse, I don't have a job right now, my previous company declined thr joining due to which I was not able to apply for other jobs coming on campus. My friends got job somewhere, I feel very disappointed in myself and I can't see my family lower their expectations in me. Mentally I am not in the state to do anything, I think my life is falling apart although it didn't even start. I am lacking motivation, I cry all the times thinking what will happen now. My father is retired, he's getting old, I want to give him that luxury and things but I can't get success thay easily. I am struck at the lowest point in my life. Even my friends are not helping me. I don't share my feelings with anyone. I don't know what to do should I look for a job or start preparing for MBA or MS in USA. I know this point came in life of many people, please help out I can't see myself going anywhere.

Don't have a job and going to graduate in 1 month

To the people who lost a parent young( I'm 24), how are you coping the loss? I lost my dad 2 months back. It was sudden. I'm still in shock. Many of our peers don't understand the feeling we are going through. How did you find your support system?

Losing a parent

System Engineer

Living far away for a better life (money,edu,etc)

How much do you miss your parents

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I got a decent hike and better job/brand. My current role is wfh until they call, but new role is in Mumbai. 

Initially I was not sure had a convo with parents whether to take it or not. After discussing all this, finally when I said I'm gonna accept my mom broke and started crying. (Cause I'll leave for mum then) 

In dilemma what to do? 
Not sure if right forum to ask 

She had her bypass surgery last year

Mom cried

Story of my life. Had an offer from Mumbai. Good enough hike and a profitable company. 
 Resigned from my previous job. Last day passed by.  
 My father had passed away due to covid and she would be alone when i left.  A day before i was going to leave, mom went into shock.  
 Had to reject the Mum offer and so I am now jobless, looking for opportunities near hometown.

Help me to come out from this.

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