Nothing Interests me anymore

I’m going through the same. It’s best to look in the mirror and live for you. Sounds cliche, but you’re not deserving of anyone’s second guesses. I’m 25F, so I can tell you we girls have 5 years easily before parents start telling us we will be old hags if we don’t marry. Till then, just flirt around and don’t attach. God will have made someone for you with the same energies. I am just out of a 3 year relationship and also failed at a situationship. The best thing you can do is to pick yourself up and not text the morons. Give yourself 21 days - they will come back for your body or the attention. Then take a wise call - don’t read your book backwards.

A broken girl(from comments section) ie pushing another girl ( @DeluluGirl) to get more broken. When men are broken, other men try to help him, but many women are just jealous and want other women to fall down just the way they did. @DeluluGirlif you really want peace then resolve the internal issues. If one has peace it is everywhere, with everyone. If one doesn't have it, it is with no one. So please look inside and work on that. We all know internally hookups, casual stuff IS WRONG AND BAD FOR OUR OWN SELF. It is destroying our mental health and expectations. That girl in comment section is suggesting to flirt around with guys and "enjoy it" before getting marriage day. If Flirting around and being casual with boys is called as enjoying in women's world. Then being unemployed and being lazy all day without taking any responsibilities would be called as enjoying in the men's world. We know both of these things are wrong. None of this is RIGHT FOR US. @DeluluGirl I highly urge to focus on your mental health and look at long term happiness and peace rather than short term happiness. And please don't go along with what "people/girls who have already lost" are suggesting you to do.

Been there. First of all virtual hugs... sucks to be in the situation. Just tell the person you need a commitment by a specific date and to not call you, message you or have any contact whatsoever. Basically a break. Meanwhile, if possible, do a digital detox, leave all devices at home. If possible go for some retreat or a long hike. If this ain't doable, go visit a couple of your friends and make travel plans everyday for a couple days. Once back, start a new hobby to keep you occupied and help you meet people. All this while, have no communication with this person. Once you feel ready and mentally prepared(you'll be better prepared after a break), either break up or get together depending on what you feel and what he thinks! Protip: don't keep your hopes high.

Best advice is - don’t be alone. Spend as much time as possible with your family, friends or anyone close. If staying away from family & friends - then walk upto strangers but don’t let all emotions and past cover your mind like jacket of clouds.

Time for solo trip .. travelling will help you seeing the broader perspective .It will also help you to connect with strangers ..Do give it a try