Sab mazak bana rakha hai :')

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Sab mazak bana rakha hai :')- Grapevine

And the number of accounts are a jungle out there.

The wild goose chase

Program Manager

Every time I'm clicking on one it shows big read 'Something went wrong'

Hope you fixing this

Scott yaar notifications are not working

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Disclaimer: Probably a rant.
Let me give you some context. I am an ambivert, I don't like interacting with new people. I have been working from home since the pandemic. 

Last day I, along with 20 other people was asked if they can come together on a weekend to celebrate the 1 year anniversary of a project(who does that) that I too was working on
One guy said he is busy and might not come. The organizer started to plead with him to go to the event, on the call, a conference call. And since I don't like the attention I didn't say I won't be going to that event either.

I understand from an organizer point of view, you have to show the maximum amount of people. But consider this, it's a freaking weekend. It should be a time to unwind from work and find some comfort of their own liking.

Thank you for attending my Ted Rant. Have a nice day

I really don't want to go to team building activities

Software Engineer

Acknowledge Your Feelings:
Accept that you are lonely or have a monotonous life and you need to make the change.

Don't hide behind "I'm an introvert", no you are just lazy and you are ok with living the shitty life, you just want spoon feeding, nothing else.
Be Open to New Experiences. It's all about initiatives, you have to take risks and put yourself in uncomfortable situations.

Do following at least once per week:
Have lunch/dinner/ outside your house.
Watch a movie in the theatre instead on your laptop.
Work from a cafe. Talk to a stranger.
Play a sport/game, you don't have to be good at it. Many people just play for fun.

Find events:Just google "events near me" or "events in bangalore" etc.
Give priority to physical in person experiences instead of digital ones.

Explore your surroundings, go for a walk in the morning or evening, take out time, talk to your neighbours.
Reach Out to Colleagues or Alumni, we all have active fiends, get in touch with them.

Take Classes or Workshops, even if you are not interested. 
Don't hesitate to spend money on experience, see money as investments, not expenses.  
Don't self reject: means don't think about what would happen and just at home, anyway you aren't doing anything.

People took initiatives to start groups & clubs, either start one for your area of interest, or join one.
Practice Self-Care and Stay in Touch with Loved Ones: you know what that means.

All this would impact your personal & professional life as well. You will stop blaming your job/manager/colleagues and accept that you were the problem, it's your choice to change your life.

If you don't do any of this and still cry about your life, hope you know that "nobody cares about your shitty life, nobody is going to come save you, you are on your own and survival of the fittest". If you don't put in the effort, you deserve whatever shitty place you are at.

It might not be as easy, but don't let yourself take advantage of you.

Framework: How to not feel lonely in a new city!

Senior software engineer

Gym peeps, what made y'all started working out?

Hi I’m an above average looking and average height guy. I’ve been looking out for a serious relationship for years now and it really sucks. I mean career wise, I’m doing great. I’ve a stable career with a good car and my own house. Something that women consider for serious relationships turning into a marriage. 

I’m also very religious, super good at heart, loyal, caring basically too good to be true. I’m so loyal that I stop looking at other women even at talking stage. Send flowers randomly etc etc. 

Now the problem is, apparently if you don’t play mind and manipulation games, or basically be toxic, you won’t get a good partner. 

Every woman out there says she’s looking for 90s love and nice guys who care for her etc etc. Then why are people like me single? Not only me i know many men who are good at heart being played by such women. Why are you lying girls?

Why dating sucks these days? (also a Rant)

Growth Manager

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Looking for a new challange in product space. Searching for an APM role in startups/MNCs. Hit me up if you're hiring or know someone who's. 1.5 YOE. 
(Can't tolerate more toxicity at current org)
Thanks is advance! 😊

APM opportunities

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How much do you plan to accumulate to retire and at what age? What kind of monthly income will let you retire peacefully?

What is your retirement golden number

Product Owner

Hote layoffs dekh ke , Diya kabeera roe

Kya fresher,kya experienced Recession me bacha na koye

Corporate kabir

Analyst

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Thow me any relevant information about raising angel investment from him. The communication is in place and I am sceptical. I wish I could do it bootstrap. The freebie team is not good to build, and looking to raise to hire developers to build fast and iterate.

Does anyone know him? 
What kind of person is he in real life?
Is he really supportive?
Could you help me with other Angel names, incase needed?

Nikhil Kamath: Planning to raise from him

Solution architect

Where & how are you folks planning to spend this long weekend? 
I'll be off to Thailand with my friends for Bachelorette 🍻

Long weekend plans

Data analyst

Welcome to Software Engineers's Private Community

So thing is  In last 1 week my manager/project lead has been threating that you will have to work on weekend if you dont complete your task by friday and put the the task to testing.

And this boils my blood soo damnn much . But as a person who is on lowest level i cant do/say shit. I just disagree with him and dont argue.
What would you have done .[ practical advice only]

And thing is i do all my dev work on time even earlier almost everytime and he just goes around and threatens everyone with this. Soo annoying thay dumbfk needs to get rekt .

Work on weekend?!! Advice needed

Data engineer

Bhai Mai DSA kru yaa nhi. Figma se jyada scope dikh rha xD

Corporate Rizz

Guys, I am 22 and would be moving to bangalore in a few months for my first job. I haven't been in a relationship since 2 years and am not very good at my game right now.

Any dating tips for me? Please try to keep the roasting to the minimum 😂

Dating in Bangalore!

Software Developer

So i’ve been Noticing her for 1.5 months now.. she notices back like hell.. she is Indian from south.. im from NCR ..working in HYD.. she’s kinda cute.. spiritual, all Green flags.. but i don’t want to take risk as she is senior 1 year.. one wrong step can ruin things.. now I’m trying to not think about her.. but she’s stuck in my mind like nothing else.. seeking help.. any suggestions to get out of this !!

She’s stuck in my head

Kal Koi Mujhako Yaad Kare
Kyun Koi Mujhako Yaad Kare
Masaruf Zamaanaa Mere Liye
Kyun Vaqt Apanaa Barabaad Kare

I felt these lines

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Market will crash by 3000+ for Nifty 50.
Our foreign policy will collapse & become inefficient.
FDI will decrease. 
Manufacturing will take a hit. 
Basic corruption will increase. 

What else you can add more?

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