I am in search of a decent person/guy who is intelligent, understanding, trustworthy, caring and have a respect for women and most importantly he should not be a pervert. But I know nowadays it is difficult to find anyone with these qualities...but still my heart says....koi to hoga... kahin to hoga...
It is difficult to find ladies who do not enquire about ctc/property /investments etc.
Itna sach nahi bolte Bhai.
Tbh dating mein no one really asks much beyond what job you do mostly. Not even how much you earn, unless it's a serious relationship. It's only in matrimony setups that this happens, and i really find it weird.
Every guy is secretly a pervert, those who say they aren't are lying. Our brains are wired like that, can't help it (unless someone is asexual).
Rest of the qualities are easy enough to find but you probably want them in someone who's attractive to you. Hence you should try dating/matrimonial apps.
Yup came here to say this. Every dude is a pervert. We are wired like that. Unless you are asexual or an 80 year old who can't get it up no more.
About the pervert... I meant to say he should not be a flirt and not only should look for a physical relationship...love and affection should not always be physically... there is another way to show the love
Hello Buddies, thanks for your replies and inputs,💐💐. Just wanted to clear the air... the Grapevine is not made for soulmate search... Hence, am not looking for a soulmate. I am looking for someone for a good friendship to share feelings and emotions and will see if everything works fine in future to continue with him or not and decide 😊
well the reality is that:
you want spoon feeding, you don't want to put efforts
you just want to sit at home and expect th guy to just find you somehow
why I'm saying this ?
because I can bet you have ignored decent guys already because they weren't interesting enough for you
most guys are like the ones you mentioned, you are just living in your bubble and refusing to leave it to put efforts
PS: here "you" is not just you specifically, most girls and boys are like this
show me which part of my message exactly is the hate towards women
