Phobia related to relatives

Why do relatives feel that they should always talk about doing things the right way and how do they know what they say is the right way? Some examples - - to lose weight, focus on walking and fully come to normal BMI and then only do weight training. But, research suggests weight training to be more beneficial for both weight loss and increasing metabolism - we should drink hot water to lose weight. What?😂 - get married early and marriage is the only way to go! - our screen time shouldn't be more with mobile, but rather with tv - don't use earphones, they damage ears - Some fruits are beneficial for diabetes Don't get me wrong, I love relatives. I just don't enjoy someone giving advice when I didn't ask them. Especially when I can't trust their source of information for anything - life advices, religion, shastra, traditions, women's rights etc. And, I am really tired fighting battle and tackling so much misinformation about everything. All I do is just listen to them and move on! Wanted to know what do you guys do?

I think we all face this, how do you deal with relatives who always try to put you down in every possible way, constantly compare salary, foreign tour, abroad jobs, new car, new home, education institute, vacations , like they are the people who feel happy by making someone hurt or feel bad about themselves. I can't have a comeback because my parents just tell me to bear them for the time being. But sometimes it just piles up and I feel like thrashing them like hulk. Someone please help me with this. Help me to deal with this, hulk toh ban nahi paunga.

(I know Osho type question hai but just curious)

I have been wfh for than a year now, my parents would keep ordering me to do small household work even when I’m working. I have asked them not to do that as it distracts me, but they will not simply listen and even scold me and compare me with others that they help their parents 😅 I have thought about just going to a different city and wfh from there but my parents are also getting old so have to think about that also.

I'm afraid that time is flying and I will not be able to do things which I thought I will do for my parents. What I'm doing- recently moved closer to them and will try to use extended weekends for doing those things (mainly experiences). Go ahead and tell us your fear and what are you doing for that

Weekly review meeting with my manager tops my list!