Aren't you the most happy person if;
you don't want to change your current life with someone, you look to or aspire to. Huh.....what? Assumption: Given the chance to exchange life with anyone in the world.
Why would you still choose yourself? Or you will exchange with someone? Who and Why?
Interesting thought, right? Please think for a while, introspect wisely.
(Personally, I look to and aspire a few but I cannot/won't exchange with anyone. WTF is wrong with me with my miserable life. Trust me, I have a miserable life, enough to have rice daily, and already failed at what I always wanted to be since sixth grade. Now, I am just trying to do what I am good at and struggling with, frustrating on a daily basis.)
The only person I'm willing to exchange my life with probably the future me. Anyone else in this world currently will not have the same kind of bond that I have with the people around me, my interests and dislikes and even myself.
Someone else may already have something that I wish to have some day but exchanging my life with their just for that one thing would come at a huge cost that I'm not willing to pay for
Guess what. Maybe, You are happy and content. IDK. Is this fascinating?
I can assure you I'm not happy. I'm unsatisfied with my current job and pay. But I'm happy about my relations with friends and family, the hobbies that I'm keeping up with, etc.
Now if I swap my life with someone who has a better job and pay than I do, I might be able to achieve one thing but will also have to let go of the other good things that I have which I'm not willing to
I wouldn't swap lives with anyone. Been lucky and blessed in all aspects from family to friends to money to intellect and career. I'm happy I'm me