"How to Navigate Mixed Signals and Uncertainties"
I am currently in a tricky situation with my arranged marriage, and I need some advice.
Here’s the background:
My arranged marriage was recently finalized.
After 20 days, the girl shared her thoughts with me:
She mentioned she wasn’t mentally prepared for this, and everything happened too quickly.
She revealed she had a breakup two years ago and isn’t sure if she can form an emotional attachment with me.
She expressed concerns that after marriage, she might lose her freedom, need permission to do things, and may not be able to achieve her aspirations.
She has clarified that she is open to an arranged marriage, but she seems to have a lot on her mind.
Our engagement is scheduled in two months, and the wedding is planned for the end of 2025.
I feel uncertain about how to proceed in this situation. Should I give her time and space, or should I reconsider this alliance altogether? Any suggestions or experiences you can share would be greatly appreciated.
Well difficult to say...it's a complete bet. But if you think you can handle her, go ahead. Usually girls don't know what they want and talk like this. Just marry her,,, love her ❤️ ... Everything will be fine
For sure please don’t do this OP thinking you can handle her 🤷🏻🤷🏻
Men should not take the trauma of handling anyone. This suggestion will generally be very costly later if the person cannot handle themselves. The guy would get stuck and will need to approach the girl's family for every small quarrel. Such women are mostly erratic and chases nuisance
You can surly give her two months time, isn’t it? And if even at 2months mark (1-2 weeks before), her mind is not clear, then just call off everything.
This suggestion is very poor such families actually harass men even on breaking an engagement and level false allegations like the boy demanded sex or something or tried to do some unethical act before marriage. There is no need to give time to such folks to cancel the marriage and remove the dilemma
Your soon to be wife (this girl or someone else) can make or break your:
If the girl is good, your life would be really great and you would be really grateful to god and your wife.
But but but, if it’s other way around - bhai tum soch nahi sakte waisa sab hoga. I have seen this happening to a lot of men.
Only marry if you are sure shot about your partner.
💯% Right
If it is not 100% yes, it is a no. Her confusion is not your responsibility.
All 3 indicate that you should just cancel it.
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