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So , I graduated in 2023 from a decent college (private) and my branch was CSE. I had a job which I didn't do due to some reasons and then started looking for another job . It's mid of 2024 now and I still don't have a job and I am in desperate need of a job and the problem is I don't know what to do now . I don't know if I should continue preparing on my own or get a course with job support ,I don't know if I should change my sector or continue with it , lots of things going on my head I hope to get some great suggestions over here P.s. i think getting a course with job support will be ideal for me
Hello, how are you today.? I do hope that you’re doing well. Please do take care. And it’s completely fine to be confused, almost all of us are, I’m serious about it. I graduated almost 10 years back and I’m confused about lot of things even now, and it’s the same with many of the people I met, and it’s the same with other people who are 5-10 years older than me, so you’re not alone. It does feel like “everyone else figured it out but only I’m not able to “, but it’s not true, only few people have that confidence and when I ask them how are you not confused what they say is astonishing, it’s just they’ll make some decision and stick with it with ultimate confidence without worrying about alternative, I’m not bragging or anything I’m a machine learning engineer with decent pay in great company, it might look like I made it or I figured everyone out, but I’m confused as hell. Then one day I come across a line while reading something, it goes like : “ Instead of worrying/thinking about what you want to do with your whole life, think about what are you interested/excited to explore more at this point of your life”, it’s amazing isn’t it, just don’t think about your whole career/sector etc etc, just think about at this point is my life I’m just interested in front end or I like to work on database queries etc etc.
the thing which you are saying is nice and calming which i don't think people understands it when they are faced with these kind of situations they just want to put themselves on running train as others and it feels overwhelming when everyone else around you is making money and living their own life on their own terms. i know many would say in this metaphor one train would go and other will come but sometimes people are hoping from that train only, maybe it's the last train for their hope.
but here, i am not discouraging anyone it's just feels like it tho because i am also trying to get on the train.
does it even make sense ?
Yes, It absolutely makes sense. Keeping the hope alive after continuous failures can be overwhelming. And sometimes we don’t even get the support we need at the difficult times. Anyway we have to try harder, and hope that we go through this
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