Navigating Social Life Challenges: Seeking Guidance

Life has been very harsh to me in terms of social life. All the places I went I didn't have any female interaction and now I'm stuck at home working. I had a past relationship which didn't worked and stopped me from going further and hit on girls. Now everything seems like a fresh start and I'm not sure where to begin. Dating apps ain't working much neither there are any in my social circle who ain't committed. What are some good places to start off with making one and how to avoid gold diggers. Will highly appreciate it if you can share your experience (if you have any). P. S: Where I live there aren't any hangout places to meet new folks. I'm ready to even move to different cities if needed. I had a relationship of around 6yrs (from school). I'm 21 and my TC is ~50LPA.

ValKilmer

SaaS

8 months ago

Join salsa or bachata class. I see a lot of folks like you in these classes, the lack of social interactions especially with women is clearly written all over the body language. But I really appreciate that these guys are atleast accepting that and being aware enough to address them. Months down I see them interacting much more freely and openly, with everyone and not just with women. It's quite uplifting to see the change in them. But yes, please don't make the intention of dating the first girl you meet in classes or social the main reason for joining these classes. It'll show through and make you lose focus.

ElonMast

Amazon

8 months ago

21 & 50 LPA, you don’t need to worry much 🤣 Oh damn! Hope I am not triggering lots of keyboard warriors.

corporate_pawn

Stealth

8 months ago

It's more of a reason I'm worried, I don't want to get stuck with a gold digger/Alimony digger 😑.

0case

Startup

8 months ago

50LPA and gold digger 😂 you have miles to go dude. You are lower middle class.

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Cr8r

ZS Associates

8 months ago

I can help on the above issue, have been in the same boat. If it works, I may think of it as a consultancy model and charge for it (why not if it solves a problem)!