Basically some of my work friends and I went to Thailand. We had a gala time there and explored a ton of places. All of us stayed at this really nice hotel which had a beautiful swimming pool. We went swimming there quite a few times.
So, I have a DailyObjects bag that I got for free on my purchase. I use this primarily for carrying towel, undergarments, swimsuit, sunscreen etc. Another colleague of mine has the same bag with the same colour.
He accidentally took my bag and I took his. I got to realise this when I opened the bag and saw swimming trunks and a book. I called to tell him about it and it was too late.
His wife picked up the phone and enquired about why I had placed my undergarments in her husband's bag. I clarified that it is just a mistake and that we accidentally swapped our bags but she was not budging. So I hung up after getting scared.
She has called me 5-6 times in the last week but I am too scared. What should I even do? Whenever I try to explain the situation she starts screaming at me again. It was a simple mistake but this woman is overreacting and my colleague also agrees.
She's completely psycho and thinks that I am trying to steal her husband.
What kind of work friends in a male and female group go to Thailand, without their spouse?
We have made several trips before folks got married and even after they got married. I don't see why that is a problem.
Your male friend should try to check why his wife is insecure. I think even I would be insecure if my husband is going to Thailand with his work friends that includes females, without me.
Part 3/3: Massive lafda happened today. She came to my home and threw eggs at my door when I did not open the door. I don't even know how tf the society let her in.
I called the police because she threw her husbands bag, poured kerosene over it and lit a fire. The police came and tried to calm her down but she started crying. Thankfully I have a metal door outside my wooden door so I was safe.
My friend(her husband) came soon and apologize to the police but she started to misbehave with a lady constable and got a tight slap from her. She was taken away by the police.
I am too scared to be friends with men in relationships now. Like how insane can someone be to do all of this over a small misunderstanding.
She needs medical treatment. Don’t leave your friend as he’s in need of support now. Ask him to take his wife to a psychiatrist and help him out professionally while he struggles at home.
On an added note- I’m not sure how did that woman got your address without the help of her husband. You can get your HR involved before this goes out of hand.
FYI- please make sure you update nominees on all your investments if you don’t have an existing will
jk 😅
Part 2/n: She called me again, she says that she always had her suspicions and I am trying to seduce her husbands by giving him my undergarments. Babe, do you even know how expensive they are. I would buy them for no man, let alone your husband, yuck.
Her husband is right beside me and he is just apologising for his wife's behaviour. Thankfully, he has returned me my bag.
Time to see what happens next, I will keep you guys posted.
Bruh I only realised you were a female after looking at the comments 😅. And here I was so confused why someone's wife would think you are trying to steal her husband 😂😂😂
Stop talking to her and log off. She needs to solve for this with her husband.
How can a conversation with you cure her insecurities?
PS > Ensure you get your bag back.
While what you said is correct, 90% girls deep deep down fear other girls travelling with their husband even if he is a sakt launda coz they believe there might be just one woman away from their marriage being broken up.
Even many guys also deep down are scared of other guy best friends his GF has.
The feeling goes both ways. Its pure insecurity and no confidence on the spouse but can't help it.
Moreover thailand is perceived as a fun destination for bachelors so it adds to the anxiety.
I can say that even a strongest man can be lured by a woman. I can quote an excellent example.
Bhasmasura a great devotee of lord shiva had to be defeated by Mohini avatar only as there was no other route to defeat him . A demon doing such penance can get enchanted by beauty, what are mere mortals !!!
You really changed gears with Bhasmasura. Well done you.
Be safe. Get this sorted ASAP. This shouldn't have happened to you. It completely throws mental peace off balance. Block her. Tell the husband to handle his wife. You shouldn't be the one she should be unloading all this crap on.
i completely agree. this is too much toxicity for me to be honest. I will try to sort this out fast.
Yes. Also be safe. I might come across paranoid but the wife seems too psycho to be reasoned with. Do discuss this with people close to you and get suggestions on how to deal with it
Rajesh is on blind and Rajeshwari is now on Grapevine. Just what we need here.
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Reason 101 - Why men shouldn't get married in this feminist society.
What a clownshow.
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