WTH is going on with the Expense Inflation of us all?

Hi fellow grapeviners, I came across few posts mentioning i am earning 60+ or 70+ lpa having 2.5 to 3 years of experience but age is only 23 or 24. I know this is too good to be real. Some iitians can do but are these people real? Please answer because these posts make me depressed i don't know why?

So many people with multiple houses, high end cars.. when they mention such statistics are they even considering total wealth or inheritance?

How much inhand income for a couple is good enough to lead a decent upper middle class life in Banglore….. Looking at the overpriced real estate and exorbitant rents and school fees for kids, young people these days are really worried about getting married. Married people please share some insights….. My def of Upper middle class life for a new couple… 1. 2bhk in a gated society or decent standalone building. 2. Gym and healthy life style 3. Movies / concerts / events twice a month 4. One 2-day and one week long tour in a year 5. A decent car (something like nexon / breeza) 6. Able to invest a lil bit for retirement. How much would be required for leading such a lifestyle ?

Was thinking about our lives. Ever since you are in school, you have something to look forward to. When you’re in 1st grade, you know next year it’s 2nd grade and so on till you finish your undergrad. Suddenly, you could be everything or nothing at the same time. Those who are good at this game of eternal growth end up grinding their lives away in the PCM -> Engg -> B-School -> Consulting hell loop. Weirdly, the determinism in growth fades away suddenly and you see people finally pursuing diverse fields. Then, the realisation kicks in. You’ve been conditioned to chase eternal growth. That is what brings meaning to you in every part of your life. Today has to be better than your yesterday, or else it feels like you’ve failed. I wonder how sustainable that is but till then we will continue to throw our youth away. My 2 cents: You have a brief moment in history. Don’t spend your 10 years of prime in doing things that don’t bring you any joy. Don’t make the same mistakes all of us make chasing joys because others are chasing them. Find your own meaning to this eternal growth.

This should include everything from home bills, entertainment, medical expenses, trips etc. When I was single (back in 2016), my expenses were around 20k per month. Now I easily go above 1L every month (without rent, we live in our own house). My wife also works and she has her expenses too. Not sure what’s the reason for it though. We live frugally and don’t spend lavishly (atleast I don’t think we do). I barely buy anything for myself (I use 1k earphones and buy clothes from decathalon). My wife is the same. Is this common when you get married? That your expenses permanently increase? Or is there something I should be worried about? TIA

Me and my spouse in total are earning 6 Lakh a month pre-tax, but inspite of that there is too much pressure on finances. I am just amazed with the cost of living. Rents, School fees, EMIs, Taxes are just eating away all the income. I am barely left with 1 lakh at end of month. This saving is not enough for any emergency. Recently my family faced with medical emergency and I am still recovering with the debt it created. Company covered health insurance denied the claim on certain grounds and we were f**c***. It looks so pretty from outside, but honestly I am frustrated even with this package in hand. Is anyone else feeling the pressure, or I am just bad at managing finances?

I am earning lakh rupees a month(excluding my monthly expenses as a single). but when I think about buying a house (2bhk around 7.5 to 8 hundred sqft) in a city like Pune/ Banglore. I feel I will not be able to afford it considering other expenses (along with 60 k emi). but when I see people with a salary of 50-60k per month buying the same houses. how are these people planning it out? and most of the people earn between 30-60k how you guys are planning it? how should I plan this for myself? and 20 years of repaying the loan. i feel it's a trap.