One of the toughest day of my life started on 03rd September, 2024. I just did not want to leave my bed at all. The world that I imagined has just crumbled. The future that I envisioned no longer cease to exist. Sense of failure in all aspects of my life has hit me. A failure in professional life, a failure as a son, a failure as a brother, a failure as a friend, a failure as a partner. A complete failure in a nutshell. This is the lowest point in my life where I want to run away, from everything. Not care about anything, not face anyone, and just run away.
The beauty of failure is if it doesn't kill you it will make your life easier. So if you manage to get out of the bed today, be assured that you will thank this time later in your life. Saying this from experience.
Maybe in the future. I am just not sure how to deal with it at the moment.
Can you tell us more about this? I am in the same situation as mentioned in this post. I am trying hard each day to get out of bed and do the bare minimum but thats not enough to meet my goals and i am not able to push myself any further.
bruh just do some push-ups and hit the gym. lamenting on social media is a privilege enjoyed by women not men
I am sorry, but that is how I have grown. Not once in my life, I have shared everything with anyone (not with my girlfriend, my friends, family, no one). This seemed like the only way to express what I am feeling..
This is the first time, I am sharing. I am sorry really to whine, but I am just sharing.
So much relatable, having dreamed of a life, and seeing it go down in shambles, where you can't save it and don't even realise when it all started to crumble.
The path forward isn't easy, some days will feel like you can't continue for one more second, but then that second will pass, then a minute, an hour, a day and a month. And soon you will find yourself in a situation where it still hurts, but you will be able to get by, easily. Hang in there bud.
And don't listen to the other commenter that man shouldn't express their feelings online. If you don't have people in your life with whom you can be completely honest, then there is nothing wrong with expressing yourself on an anonymous platform. No one should keep their feelings bottled up, let them out.
Thanks bud. Helps! In reality, I do have folks (amazing) whom I can share this with. I just am not that kind of a person, you know. Hence, I have posted this anonymously.
Ignoring close relationships to the extent of disaster (breakdown/breakups)c to further up your career, doesn’t look a wise move.
Yes, the question is what are you willing to compromise for professional growth.
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