ZippyPenguin
ZippyPenguin

Fu** this

Like you genuinely go ahead and love someone seriously and they just leave. How did you come out of it???

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ZoomyNarwhal
ZoomyNarwhal

No easy way out, buffalo run into the storm minimizing the amount of pain, time, and frustration they experience from that storm.

Experiences only helps you make better decisions for future.

carry the boats, the logs Stay hard.

WobblyPanda
WobblyPanda

There is no trick, u gradually get used to it that they r not what they used to be, u have to move on, form a routine stick to it, 2-3 months u will feel better, there will be times where u feel like u r not able to move on, but you will, trust the process, hit the gym(easiest way to get out)🙂

ZippyPenguin
ZippyPenguin

I have been hitting the gym when I was with her. I know but like fuck bro how we are gonna find someone and marry. Kese log hein sarey

CosmicRaccoon
CosmicRaccoon

Bruh...

ZippyPenguin
ZippyPenguin

Bruh.... :((( it's a weird feeling. And when it happens for first time it's weird af

TwirlyNugget
TwirlyNugget

Out of sight out of mind.

  1. Delete everything which reminds you of that person.

  2. Pursue a Goal which will keep you occupied. Channel the anger to something productive.

Its okay to think of them and feel sad but you will come out of it.

DerpyBiscuit
DerpyBiscuit

I don't know but this works for me...I have discussed my breakup with so many people that after sometime this was not an issue for me...the things which used to make me cry were not bothering anymore. So just share this with many of your friends. You need to vomit out those feelings.

ZoomyPotato
ZoomyPotato

You have to come out of it and I won't lie, it takes effort and it's not easy. One general way to handle this is to lower your expectations in general from other people (including your family). It makes life a little easier. Don't get very much attached to any other person or living being for that matter.

SillyMochi
SillyMochi

This will be a tough pill to swallow, but “love” that forces someone to be with you when they no longer want to is toxic. Everyone has their reasons to stay with their partner. And if you run out of reasons, that’s it. If someone still stays, it can lead to more complications like cheating, lying, mental torture etc.

To your point of coming out of such a situation, time is the best healer. There’s no other permanent solution. You can numb the pain with n number of distractions including activities, substances, etc. But ultimately staying focused on your own well-being, and still keeping an open mind to the possibility of someone better coming around is the only way forward.

PrancingPotato
PrancingPotato

You never come out of this. You just start loving someone else, more. A part of you always loves that person who left you. 

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

Pretty good advice in all the comments lol

Sab heart broken romeos assemble ho chuke hain 😂

You're not alone buddy. We're all trying to figure it out. Time heals most wounds from my experience. Just give yourself time to heal. I personally take a year or two after a serious breakup before i can start dating again.

BubblyNugget
BubblyNugget

Geeta, niskam karm,give and forgive, and remember nothing is eternal

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