SillyBoba
SillyBoba

Guide your Junior on Adulting

Guys please give me some tips to become fearless. I alway fear in every work. Whether it's joining new company,taking some tough work, doing something new, you name it and I always have fear. Fear of what will happen next,how will I manage that, is it even possible, what if they don't like me etc etc etc. I am currently in my early 20's and I don't want to spend my life fearing from everything. Please peeps guide me or give some mantras based on your life experiences how not to fear or how not to get that feeling.

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DancingDonut
DancingDonut

My dear friend. All of life matters and none of it matters.
Everything is important and nothing is important.
Fear is important. But so is the lack of it.

Acknowledge that it's normal to feel uncertain about the future. Focus on what you can control in the present moment.

Remember that everyone is figuring things out, even if they seem to have it together. Take small steps towards your goals and celebrate progress as hard as you can.

SillyBoba
SillyBoba

Thanks buddy

GroovyBanana
GroovyBanana

Loved the response!

SqueakyCupcake
SqueakyCupcake

step 1: don’t talk properly, run your mouth loud step 2: cut your boss in between his sentences step 3: point fingers at people step 4: don’t shower, never shave, big messy hair etc

these are the four tales of being fealess. goodluck!

SillyBoba
SillyBoba

Are you being sarcastic ?

SqueakyCupcake
SqueakyCupcake

no, i’m dead serious. on the second note, being fearless doesn’t mean you’re strong and bold.

every person should have an apt amount of fear, and overcoming that fear “WHEN IN NEED” matters. me personally, at this point i don’t care about outcomes, i just do what i’ve to do, and face the results!

The amount of fear you feel at work is inversely proportional to the amount of generation wealth you have.

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

Now where will he find generational wealth bro

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle

So if you're poor you're prone to fall prey to fear? Or the other way around?

ZestyBurrito
ZestyBurrito

My mantra: I am not afraid of rejection, I am afraid of not trying.

ZestyBoba
ZestyBoba

Right now I'm feeling just the opposite. How do I change that?

ZestyBurrito
ZestyBurrito

If it is uncertainty of the future that is holding you back, then give yourself faith that you have the power to make and change your life.

For how to do it, you can ask yourself these questions:

  1. What are you going to lose if you don't try because you fear rejection?
  2. After 5, 10, 20 years from now, when you look back at this decision of yours, how are you going to feel about it? Are you going to regret not taking your chances?
SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

-Never mix personal with professional

-Never contribute in gossip

-Never cut ties with anyone, no matter how toxic they are, you never know when you might need them as it's a small world we live in. Offcourse, distance yourself from people who feel toxic for sure.

-Distance over disrespect. Sums it up.

-Start dating early. This way you have a headstart. Trust me. Its not a distraction if you know your priorities.

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