By far the most common question I've seen from guys online is how to get matches.
Get good pictures of yourself clicked if you don't have any. Strictly no selfies. Also try and avoid profiles with too many selfies (it usually means they don't have enough friends in life which is a red flag).
Pictures shouldn't be old/outdated. Always upload recent ones. One or two should be of you doing something interesting (with friends, some hobby/activity) and your face and body should be visible clearly. Have at least 1-2 pics where full body is visible.
Do not have more than 3 sentences in your bio. Don't try too hard to describe yourself in a profile (don't fill up that profile to 100% details filled). Leave some space for mystery.
OBSESS over bio introduction. It should be crisp, witty and error free. It will make or break your profile.
Gym pics and car pics are a hit and miss. Some will go for it, others won't. Different personalities will go for different things. Upto you which kind you want to attract.
If you have pics with female friends, can add one. Women trust other women to select men. If you already have healthy female friendships, that's a green flag for them. Do take permission from your friends though. And it should be a group pic, not one where it's just you and one woman. They would assume that's your gf/ex, which is red flag for many.
Just do this much and it will definitely boost your matches.
I believe you can give workshops or consultation on the topic of Dating.
No one wants to pay for good advice, everyone wants it free 🤷♂️
Plus I'm not your avg good looking hunk who can sell something like that. If you see me IRL you'll seriously doubt I've had hundreds of matches.
The first paragraph is unfortunately true many times in life.
The second one can be your USP, you just need to know some person who will guide you how to convert it to your USP.
U r dating guru 🫡😌
Quick disclaimer: These are just observations (From an obvious small sample space) and not generalizations.
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