I feel like something is bothering me

Hey Bro, here’s a tip—not a warning, No female friends right now, it might complicate things more than you’d expect.

Instead, focus on hobbies you’re naturally good at, maybe cricket, badminton, or hitting the gym. Pick one and show up consistently, like 2-3 times a week. You’ll start meeting people naturally. Take your time watching how things flow before jumping in, connect when it feels right.

Also, I get the vibe you might want to bring a girl into your life. From what I’ve seen in my circle and how things are lately, I’d say don’t think on that lines, chances are it won’t bring the happiness you’re hoping for.

Cool Mate, You are not in trouble — You just need to progress and everything will be alright soon.

Thank God I'm not left alone with the same feeling in this world. In the office environment surrounded by 12+team members having lunch I always sit blank and I struggle to merge into the topic discuss only I can withstand 2 mins talk. I wonder how people start a simple conversation and keep that going.

Though I have multiple thoughts in mind and I don't express it most of the time I just keep on observing people.

I wish I had some power to crack few jokes and keep me engaged during my lunch time.

You don't have to be a social person to be able to learn and practice socialization. It's a skill that can be honed over time.

Change is the only constant and people often change drastically every 10-15 years. Much of it is intentional.

same here bro , feels like no one is there for me .

At a mental breakdown, after having no one to talk with, I was talking with chatgpt about my problems.

Are you someone who likes spending time with himself/herself or someone who has problem taking to others.

If it's the former then you are an introvert and i think there is nothing to worry about as you already like your company more than anybody else's.

But if it's the later, which i believe it is since you want to talk to other people, then you are not an introvert rather someone who has difficult time talking to others. The only to way to get improve here is to just go and talk and have as many awkward conversations as you can because that is how you will improve.

So much relatable!! I like the peace of being alone, but sometimes I feel like need of a person to move chit chat gossip and roam!! After college days it's been so bad I'm not even uttering a word out of my mouth during these days!!

I could relate to this story. I don’t like interactions and coming out of my shell. Coming to my case, when I switched to my current organisation in a whole WFH environment, I had to break that shell, interact with people over calls and what not, which is completely opposite of who I am, but it was needed for my job. Similarly, if you want to find someone, you need to come little out of your shell as without communication, no one can understand you!

Try journaling. If there's not much to write, then try reading books. Sometimes, this is better than making pointless or fake talks with humans. At least until you happen to meet the right friend circle or people.

ASAP Good to go for marriage 😎