Men in tech earning high,whom you have married or whom you prefer to marry

Men in tech who are already earning high salaries. Have you married women earning well or housewife or earning very less compared to you(maybe in non-tech). Does you spouse who warns help in your day to day expenses or big expenses(trips,car,gifts,etc) or you take care of most of expenses? And non married men with high salary what you prefer. How is life for men with either of these.

P.S - This is just to get an idea how life and money comes into picture for a couple, I respect all categories of men and women.