Not good relations
How to survive being 25 year old when you don't have good brothers and sisters.
Bro, in my 20s, don't have any siblings. Still living my life! What's so tough with yours?
Sometimes i think it's good. Because having them also feels like same as they don't share anything don't talk much . Only talk when required help and money
It is good. But if you don't convey to them why you think it's precious and would like to be part of their life, they may not realise how you feel about this relationship
"GOOD" brothers and sisters? Do you mean they are not compatible or don't treat you well?
They are without any job but have taken so much debts and indulge in wrong doings without telling you. Only to tell afterwards when they need money. This happened 5-6 times.
One of my friend was in a same situation. Though his parents were good they were equally supporting other siblings who used to lose money over gambling and online betting. One fine day he searched for a job in a far away city left without telling anyone. Bought a new sim card and is now leaving peacefully. Last time I heard his parents now have thrown other siblings out of house and asked them to come back only when they become responsible.
The HARD TRUTH some people don't change.
You can Become strangers to them, if you're self sufficient don't need parents inheritance let them waste it. reduce relationship, don't let them waste your money.
They're nothing different than non productive folks surviving on govt. subsidy, instead you're finding them.
My dad has one such disgrace of brother, papa paid for his college fees and all other monetary help. he still jobless and decided to get married and wasted 2 more life (wife-kid)
Dad could have bought property or invested instead of that in 2010s, he'll be able to retire in villa with bwm by now.
What does that even mean?
Start by improving your communications and elaborate on what you are feeling and what exactly you need
I don't need anything. Communucation is good. I am living in different city for the job. They live with parents. But neither they tell larents what they are doing nor to me. Hiding and telling lies. Gambled so much money without letting us know only to take help afterwards