GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

People who have never been in relationships, what were your reasons and how do u cope up?

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SqueakyMochi
SqueakyMochi
TCS6mo

Reason : Still in search of person who can assure lifetime commitment 😶‍🌫️

How do i Cope Up : Focus on better things in life, rather than thinking about this...

Have patience, "Great things take time" & "Trust in God's Plan " 🤞🏻😊

WobblyCupcake
WobblyCupcake

Age?

CosmicQuokka
CosmicQuokka
EXL6mo

Same, but I keep thinking about this. How to not think? I think I am good where I am and quite comfortable as well.

MagicalJellybean
MagicalJellybean

Focus on your goals not just three holes

QuirkyBiscuit
QuirkyBiscuit

🤣🤣

ZestyPretzel
ZestyPretzel

Respect!

CosmicNarwhal
CosmicNarwhal

Focussed on my academics and then career as I always thought pursuing relationships are emotionally draining and doing it along side are like travelling two different boats. I missed the relationship boat early on and seldom anyone can get genuine love after mid 20s.

PerkyNarwhal
PerkyNarwhal

Not falling for trap, never thought of time pass, waiting for genuine person. Save myself for some one who truly loves me.

ZestyTaco
ZestyTaco

kyaa baat hai yaar

keep going, never fall in trap

Directly marry - i wish many women are like you!!!!!

ZippyPancake
ZippyPancake
EY4mo

I just don’t understand how when and why out of the blue dating become so complicated. Why aren’t people getting romantically attracted towards each other and if they do somehow get slightly attracted to someone how are they shaking off that feeling away unknowingly and getting lost in their grind is a mystery to me and I am one of them mind you. Definitely not coping with it just intentionally avoiding thinking of it to a point where it has now become a norm

CosmicQuokka
CosmicQuokka
EXL4mo

Actually I have seen men not talking about it, either they avoid the topic completely because they don't want to be vulnerable in front of others or just say casually hookup with other person, which to them might sound cool and they might think of me as a dumbest but tbh I know it's the other way around and they sound completely stupid to me! They will start giving excuses like in this generation you won't get anything so just keep hooking up causally, don't marry and all

GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

Ugly looks stops me bro

FluffyBiscuit
FluffyBiscuit

I'm too scared to ask any girl out. Scared of She will reject me based on my looks or make fun of me

FuzzyBagel
FuzzyBagel

I am 27 and virgin. Dated in my school year’s, later adulthood happened never dated since, parents want me to find guys and get married but not able to develop feelings for the men out there in the world. I am straight tho.

GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

I have dmed you!

FloatingDonut
FloatingDonut

Something bad always happened right when things were building up or looking good with the person. It’s happened 2-3 times so I would say either I have extremely bad luck or the stars just don’t align for me in such scenarios.

How do I cope up with it? I try and keep my focus on work, friends , travelling and personal growth. Though there is loneliness I carry, longing for that right person to come in my life.

GigglyQuokka
GigglyQuokka

Hope you find a nice person!

GigglyJellybean
GigglyJellybean

I mean I'm so exhausted that I don't even have the energy to put efforts. In school and college I was that "Crazy" kid (still am) but after job it has killed my energy. I just want peace tbh.

FloatingPotato
FloatingPotato

Adversity was my only relationship

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