Looper
Looper

Teetotaler.Sober.Veggie

I'm a Teetotaler, simple nature and a vegetarian.

Staying in Hinjewadi/Pune

I'm finding a hard time going out because everyone wants to go to bar and drink as enjoyment.

Well that's not the may to enjoy.

I'm left mostly alone and there are no girls to date with.

Online dating apps are out of question as you know it has multiple options for everyone.

I end up stuck at home.

5mo ago2.1K views
IntrovertBeing
IntrovertBeing

You can try different mock tails and be different from everyone going for alcohol.

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Looper
Open5mo

Have done that....but others start ranting

IntrovertBeing
IntrovertBeing

People will rant on one or other thing! Be confident

LooseGoose
LooseGoose

Install bumble and start talking to women. You aren't the only teetotaller or vegetarian in town, you'll surely find others. I have met all sorts of people through bumble and I recommend it to most guys looking for company.

Don't need to date necessarily either, just make friends. Dating will happen later if things go well, make friends first.

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Looper
Open5mo

I'm out of luck on these dating sites... I don't get a match and even if I get they are just not interested

LooseGoose
LooseGoose

What makes you think they aren't interested? If you matched that's a clear indication of experience.

Don't go by their texting, try to make plans to meet in 1-2 weeks of talking. Not everyone likes to text, in person meeting matters more.

r10a
r10a

Duuuude I understand how you feel. Ironically, “I am reducing my alcohol intake to focus on health. I can’t do moderation.” is an acceptable line than “I am a teetotaller and I do not drink” 😂

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Open5mo

The indirect modern lingo 😄

Qwerty2398
Qwerty2398

I assume you are in your early 20s. You will be gold in the market when you hit 30. Just focus on building your career.

Relax.

Quertyloop
Quertyloop
Student5mo

Hey, I understand how you feel. You could try new hobbies, join some community stuff, try new places based on your interest, I'm sure you'll meet people like you. About girls, look, it's honestly better to be alone, than be with someone for few months and they ghost you. You end up in same position or worse than now.

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