This man gives me life time trauma
1 year ago he texted me for marriage proposal(our parents are not envolved), in beginning he shows extreme interest and i too find him as a good match. We both are working in corporate sector. Its all about long distance. He used to give me full attention and always make me feel special. I too cared and supported him. We also met in person. He always called me daily. Slowly i got attached to him and developed feelings for him . He is the one who make me feel like that. He also knows that i love him. He said that i am perfect wife material, any boy will be lucky who will have me as a wife. I asked him whether he is dating other girls he said no. After 3 months he said we should take more time to understand each other. I have done those things for him which i have never done for anyone. I always give him priority and never yell at him. But suddenly after 11 months he started ignoring me, started making excuses, not replying, not calling . He is dating other girl. I tried to call him but he is not answering my call. I wonder why he developed feelings in me when he dont want to have me in his life. i think i am just his backup plan and last option. But just to make me his backup plan he played with my feelings. All i suffer is sleepless nights, anxiety,depression. I am totally broken from inside. Don’t know how i will make him back in my life 💔
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These things make me wonder why do we trust anyone
Imagine a world where absolutely no one trusts absolutely no one.
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I’ve been there too but in my case it was a girl who did this type of similar thing to me so I can relate with you and I know your heart is really hurting right now, and it's okay to feel all of those emotions. What you're going through is tough, and it's understandable that you're feeling lost and confused.
Remember that your worth isn't tied to someone else's actions, and it's important to be kind and patient with yourself as you navigate this difficult time.
Focus on taking care of yourself right now, and allow yourself the space to heal. You deserve to feel valued and happy. This will take sometime and it all depends on your mental strength that for how long you want to think about this person…once you overcome this situation then one day you’ll
definitely realise life is so big than this.
But please don’t think about making him comeback because it will hurt you more and more.
Sooner or later this phase will pass and you’ll be happier again. 😄
Thanks ..
You sure you still want this guy back in your life?
U r so lucky he went by himself. Else u would have been in toxic relationship for longer. Never trust long distance relationship. N it's not even love. It's just attraction n the feeling u get when u want something which u can't get. He is not even worth trying. With time things would b better n u will find partner u deserve n than u will laugh on this
Sure..
God saved you. It's better that he did all this before marriage, what if he did the same thing after marriage?
I recently encountered a guy on GV, he only pinged me that he wants to date and marry, he showed interest in beginning but I didn't knew that he told me his fake name, he didn't want to disclose his identity, when I asked his LinkedIn, he said I don't use, when I asked his adhar card, he edited the adhar card with fake name and he used a 3 sec timer on that and sent me on telegram, this guy didn't even share his number, we were talking on telegram call. Later on he stopped showing interest and rarely called me and afer sometime he gave me lame excuse that I am busy in so many things these days so let's not continue and this long distance thing is not working.
I'm happy that I'm saved from a heartbreak. He is just an idiot who was playing mind games with me and even he asked me for a trip.
In your case you were trapped . Please be mindful when you are talking to someone for marriage as that person can be changed anytime when he finds a better person than you. So wait for the other person to fall in love with you and please try to move on, don't chase that person, you deserve better . Someone who gives continuous attention to you and is sure about you. Don't let anyone play with you.
Yeah correct.. people used to be so interested in beginning and in end they show their true colour
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Just came across this post.
Sahi kaha
Isn’t it obvious risk with Love marriage process? Plenty of boys and girls are crying heartbroken after this stage comes- that marriage was assured verbally and now backtracked.
So I think one should be emotionally strong when indulging in such relationships. Know the risks of heartbreaks and betrayal, this process comes with its obvious pros and cons.
Stay strong. Best wishes
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