BubblyNoodle
BubblyNoodle

Tired in fight between wife and mother

There is constant drama in home. My wife and mother has not spoken properly for past 3 years now. Daily I struggle to maintain balance between two and get sandwiched. More I try to maintain harmony more fight happens. They both are educated and well learned but they just don't like each other. It has taken a toll on my mental health and my work productivity is also suffering. I am getting fat (stress eating) and random health issues are coming. Please suggest how to deal with this? 🙏

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GroovyMuffin
GroovyMuffin

Lock them up in a room. Put a camera. Live stream. Monetise it. Bravo, now you’re a millionaire with a therapist.

WobblyCupcake
WobblyCupcake

Living separately is an option?

BubblyNoodle
BubblyNoodle

Yes I live in Bangalore but my parents live in Bengal. Whenever they come for 10-15 days fight happens. Makes me think sometimes my appetite is less for suffering.

SleepyNugget
SleepyNugget

You proactively go and visit your mom. Tell them not needed to come. These things happen.. have to find a common interest.

JumpyNoodle
JumpyNoodle

if you couldn't solve it in 3 years, stop trying to solve in next year.

i'd suggest - keep both of them separate to avoid future altercations. Separate as in assume that both of them not getting intersection time & escalating the issue.

Not the best option but better than you getting in between the grind.

ZippyJellybean
ZippyJellybean

Live separately

GroovyMuffin
GroovyMuffin

Jokes apart, mentally check out bruv. Put your foot down, let them know how you feel about it and stay away from this. It’s the most mature thing to do.

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