Was feeling a bit down today
For context I have no friends and i often feel aloof when I see people having lots of friends and i am not able to strike convos with random people cuz i never was like that.
I had school friends they don't reply now as well, there was one guy who I went to jee coaching with and then when boards got over he said bro whenever u need to talk just reach out, he was the person who really understood me cuz he and I both are from Delhi itself.
Now after 2nd yr he started talking less and then he went to Canada and the only friend who understood me went by. I never had lots of friends, I was a very shy person and i never used to talk much, in my workplace as well i never had people of my age in my team, i just talk very less there as well.
Idk what it's about but it feels hurt at times and i just don't know what to do at this point, it feels so strange that i have no one to talk to and pour my heart out.
Was feeling down kinda so wrote this.
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Sad to read this, Why dont you start doing activities by yourself?
Which activities?, i have social anxiety it's like i can go anywhere but I need support of someone, I had never gone alone anywhere
Hmm, my take would be push yourself on this alone, believe me this dependency is not what anyone should get habitual with, any activity be it small- you can try as per your interests. What about any close friends at work?
I also face similar problems... I have recently started reading books it helps.
Even I feel the same at work.. I'm the only one supporting the project from my location... It really hurts at times to sit alone, eat and see other people socializing. 🥲
I was feeling the same way a year ago. Then i joined a gym and everything changed. I got a lot of friends there. We even started going out, having dinner and stuff. I was able to find a cricket group as well within the gym and we play every week now. You should try this.