Why is life so hard for guys?

This is a rant post. Here is what is expected from a guy in India

• Study well, go to a great college.
• Get a high paying job.
• Marry at the right time or else all your achievements are a waste.
• Buy depreciating assets like car, houses etc
• Have kids at the right time.
• Give your kids the right upbringing.
• Take care of your parents.
• Be part of the society

Whereas, for girls all of the above do apply but are good to have things and not a must have.

If anything is missed from the above list, unfortunately society thinks you have not done the bare minimum.

Now my question is who has all of this sorted considering at whatever point of life they are in.