BubblyBanana
BubblyBanana

Why nobody without past?

Do anybody exist nowadays without any past relationships? In arrange too getting people with past, many try to hide it in start but accept after so much of efforts.

If having past then why not to accept?!

How to see secure future with people had multiple pasts or lieing on past?! Isn't it lot much compromise on mental peace🤔

What if you believe in old school relations - had no past and want someone similar with no past...You want to be and grow with one person forever no matter what... is it nearly possible now?

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DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama

Why is previous past wrong? Get to know them, see if you both match at the levels and if you see a future with them(not past). As long as they haven't cheated on previous relationships, it's fine to have had multiple relationships! Prove me wrong!

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student7mo

Unemployed detected opinion rejected

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama

So says a student 😂😂😂 Pehle bade ho jao

ZestyTaco
ZestyTaco

There are many many many women without any past, definitely more than the ones with past. But these women are less likely to be found in Dating Apps/pubs/corporates/any working space.

Some people might rebuke me on this ‘apps….working space’ comment. But ill explain my rationale, when you are at home, you are in a controlled and more loving environment as against when you go out to work - and this working and all creates more stress which in turn creates the need to be with someone more which explains the correlation between going out and having a past thing

its just that women with no past might be less outgoing and hence are difficult to find

BubblyBanana
BubblyBanana

Was asking about men:)

ZestyTaco
ZestyTaco

Oops. Feeling embarrassed, shit 😂😂😂🙈🙈

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

Depends on location and age tbh. Can still find some in semi rural areas and tier 2/3 cities.

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean

There's no guarantee of having a happily forever after with your choice though. Very rare to find the right person, be it in dating or arranged marriage.

BubblyBanana
BubblyBanana

Boys are lying more than girls ig, even the conservative society not much restrict men

JumpyLlama
JumpyLlama
EY7mo

Live in relationship, casual hookup culture is on rise almost everywhere. What else to expect? 😐

BubblyBanana
BubblyBanana

True..this all are so easily accessible now...but what happened to personal morals & values of ppl

PrancingDonut
PrancingDonut

Overpowered by horniness

WobblyPancake
WobblyPancake
Meta7mo

Why does it matter though if the person is loyal to you now. If you are having "doubts" then having a past become irrelevant as its already a red flag.

BubblyBanana
BubblyBanana

Actually I doubte everyone before getting into reln because of my non existent expectation... Judging someone based on pasts.. Am I doing this life thing wrong🙃

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