Women on GV - how do you find the right guy?

I’m 25M, and I know that it’s not my place to comment here, but the thing is, even guys find hard to find girls, particularly your good old ‘nice guys’. Nice guys don’t get a match, and cocky guys somehow play their games, woo girls, and then disappoint them. I don’t intend to boast, but I’m what you would describe as a ‘nice guy’. Matched with a girl, did flirt a little on chat, took her out 2 times, wasn’t very clingy to her, dropped her home the 2 times it got late, didn’t initiate any nasty conversation at all, never even touched her, and now I’m ghosted by her. The girl did reciprocate in a good way initially, but then idk what happened. My demeanour is what people would call ‘formal’.

Given up! 😂 I was such a "mujhe shaadi karne ka bada shauk" girl, but now I am starting to see relationships are farce

There are no woman on Grapevine. Stop spreading conspiracy theory. There are only apache helicoptor!

Definitely, very tough to find a good guy who doesn't want a casual relationship. Dating apps are shit. Not 1 among 500 likes would actually say they want something serious. Cz guys have nothing to lose in a casual relationship, it's women who have a lower hand (cz biology!)

F here, we are looking for guys who give an equal importance to our career and life trajectories and not just put us on a pedestal on the basis of how we look (although I do consider it as an important catalyst). i am surprised how guys are okay with girls who supposedly have no ambitions at all. feel free to let me know what everyone here thinks about this!