[Thread] What are the little things you find happiness in?
Lately, walking in the garden and watching birds chirp in the morning has become an underrated thing that I find deep happiness in. Even late night walks are becoming interesting with an ice-cream at hand and the wind blowing in my hair. What about you all?
Underpaid99
Stealth
a year ago
Same here. My dad after retirement has is upto gardening. We get fresh okra, beans etc from our garden. Seeing the plants grow and taking a walk through the greenery makes me happy.
@Underpaid99 Oh wow, that is so beautiful. You get non-GMO and organic food for the feed.
Underpaid99
Stealth
a year ago
Yes. I like WFH for this.
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n00b
Stealth
a year ago
When I lived in Gurgaon, during the winters after work and dinner, me and another resident in the building would make chai and go chill on the roof around a bonfire late into the night.
We'd discuss about dreams, goals, philosophy, or simply listen to to slow music in silence as the millennium city slept.
Occassionally, we'd have other friends and colleagues join us, and sometimes we'd share a joint too.
Reading biographies! Just love it. You get to re-live the moments.
Underpaid99
Stealth
a year ago
What are some biographies that you’ll suggest?
@QuietSurgery I completely agree. It puts you in the shoes of someone else and you get to live their life.
I loved Shoe Dog by Phil Knight
I am currently starting Elon Musk by Walter Isaacson as well after finishing the one by Ashlee Vance 4 years back.
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BiryaniEnthu
Stealth
a year ago
It may sound weird, but Delhi/Gurgaon traffic has so many stories if you observe closely. The sounds here are calming as compared to Bangalore’s (or maybe because its home)
Uddh
Stealth
a year ago
@salt you work in Delhi too?
Toph56
Stealth
a year ago
- looking out of on the 10th floor balcony as it rains and feeling grateful to be indoors. Opening the balcony door to enjoy the sound, sight and the chilly feel of rain. And knowing it will be fleeting.
- seeing a plant bought from the nursery settling in well and witnessing the growth of brand new leaves and flowers
- Friday evening going to sleep feeling good about the upcoming two days of holidays
- meeting an old friend after ages. Makes me happy all day long both before and after the meeting
- driving on the hills as it starts drizzling
- hanging out with close friends talking about nothing and everything
- enjoying a cup of chai / coffee with your loved one with phone in a different room
@Toph56 This is crazy. Can’t believe that this is the true embodiment of humility.
itachiuchiha
Stealth
a year ago
Friday night sleep is so underrated
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I really like looking out my window and observing the life around me. Makes me introspect about the life I lead and helps me be more mindful about things.
2 AM late-night talks, introspecting on how much life has changed in the last few years, looking at the sky, enjoying the cool breeze, and its calmness with your closest friends is second to none.
When I am alone, I prefer to read memoirs and life stories of people whom I admire and look up to. The feeling is surreal. Though it is temporary only, I try that at least some part of it stays with me forever.
@Thomas_Shelby I agree even today evening, all I want is comfort and solace from this world.
Kaka_boom
Stealth
a year ago
Booze, drugs, porn and junk
coderx
Student
a year ago
A daily scene for me bruh
Uddh
Stealth
a year ago
Get a life dude
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LooseGoose
Stealth
a year ago
Spending time with friends and family. Used to be an introvert, flipped after covid.
LooseGoose
Stealth
a year ago
Really did. Actually made me realise how short and fragile life is.
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Pvykey
Stealth
a year ago
Reduce the work outcome for 1 day after manager bashed you for things which you are not responsible for.
Wear the next day bash like a badge as you know what you have done and be happy.
Note: Evil manager deserve evil worker
Uddh
Stealth
a year ago
@Pvykey Did not get you
Relationships-
Taking a walk with my gf. Or, you know, basically spending time with her!
Spending time with my friends doing random shit
Activities-
Watching movies in theatres
Learning new things
Enjoying the rain and then coming to home and eating pakodas with Chai
Trying out new cuisines/Activities
Outward nature-
Helping out people in need anytime I feel there's a need
I lately play with my neighbours cat. She swaggers in like she owns the place and demands to be fed
Toph56
Stealth
a year ago
What’s interesting about this thread is that most of the answers are about experience, people and nature. Very little spoken about material possessions. Heartening to see that. Hope more of us realise that and focus on the right things in life in search of “happiness” vs buying / doing things that we don’t want to, but only to impress others around us.
heisenberg17
Stealth
a year ago
Whenever I'm in my hometown, I look forward to night walks after completing the day's work (office still flexible with WFH). Sadly in Bangalore, I have been unable to find a good route to do so.
Hometown post dinner walks with my brother while talking about random stuff were some of me favourite moments during pandemic. Even though I have a great scenic walking route in Bangalore but it just doesn't work without those conversations.
heisenberg17
Stealth
a year ago
I listen to music or podcasts while walking so don't feel need for conversations
Listening to regional music, midnight drive on the ring road, gives so much enjoyment, and if I'm following some recipe, cooking feels almost meditative.
DumNinja
Stealth
a year ago
Watching the sunset, the night sky. Eating. Moving. Anything but my job I guess 🤷♂️