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Mine is more of an autograph 🙈

And they never match Hopefully banks believe in me 🙏

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by Rhombus

CARS24

[Thread] First Business/Visiting Card [Experience]

In childhood, I used to fancy a lot about business cards. The titles, fancy contacts, emails, websites used to amaze me. I observe that person's outer lifestyle, how they speak and behave. The professional smile they carry on - I started practicing in front of the mirror since then, used to do a lot of imaginary handshakes, and greetings when no one is around, in the home or many a times, while bathing. I used to check the business cards my father had on the desk, curiously, I used to ask about their titles and what they do. He also said business cards shouldn't be thrown away once the work is done, there's some value to a card that will be understood later. Even after I stepped into college, he said when people offer their cards, it shouldn't be thrown away even when there is no business to deal. We should still respect the other person. After I started working, I saw my L2's business card and I was exclaimed and I should be getting that title sometime in the future. He told me to apply for the business card, I was nervous as I was a fresher, by then. Few weeks later I got hands on my 1st business card. Oh God! that feeling was damn high with teary eyes. Took a deep breath, read my name, it sounded dashing. I first gave it to my dad, he was very proud and kept it in his wallet. Mom kissed the card. Went to my grandparents home, handed it to my grandfather, his eyes and the feeling he had that moment - he was damn proud of me! In the beginning, I used to handover my card after the meetings with a single hand, in a western style. Then I was taught the proper way of issuing:- When we meet someone, be it a meeting or a first-timer, after the firm handshake, we should give our business card with both the hands and then get to discuss about the business or the meeting, mostly Indian way. With QR codes, websites, LinkedIn around, culture of business cards shouldn't die. Do share the story of your first business card :) and how's it going?

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by BlickCait

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I wish life was a little easier and I just need to vent

My mother called me yesterday and tells me she got scammed for about 10 lakhs and needs money by Monday. She has 4 lakhs and I will have to cover the rest. Turns out she let a friend take a loan in her name and this friend gave fake jewellery as collateral. The friend took loans under her husband’s name and my mom’s name, she divorced the dude and escaped. The bank called my mom and has asked her to pay, now they’re filing a case against my mom for fraud. I’ve spent my weekend talking to advocates and friends, and looks like the only way to get out of it unscathed is to cut a deal with the bank saying we’ll pay the money back and they don’t press charges in return. Contesting the bank is going to take time, money and the risk of my mom losing her job. As an older daughter who grew up in a broken family, I’ve spent my childhood and adulthood protecting my mother and sibling. I finally landed a well paying job 2 years ago and now the responsibility extended to providing for my younger sister and my mother financially which I’m more than happy to do. I’ve worked hard the past few months to save what I have right now beyond what I give my family, use to sustain myself and finally felt happy about the position I’m in. Now I’m heartbroken. I’m going to be emptying almost 70% of what I have so far for this for paying the bank and the lawyer. Especially for something that’s not even my mistake and something that could have been easily avoided. I’m not in a place to direct my anger at her, I know it’s a hard time for her as well. 6 to 7 lakhs might sound like a small amount to some but I don’t have the privilege to throw money like that. I don’t have fuck you money. I don’t take money from friends. I’m 25 and literally just started my life 2 years ago after working for peanuts. What’s even the point of working hard, leading an honest life if this is how it works? It’s just truly unfair and I don’t know how to deal with it.