I'm a 25 y/o F. Met my schoolmate through Instagram. For 6 months we were dating. I clearly mentioned him that if we are getting involved physically then we should define our relationship as a long term one. I trusted this guy and went ahead in getting physically involved multiple times. The chemistry was so good and irresistible for both of us. He was giving me signals like saying “now I'm taken I guess “ “ i’m not a person who leaves someone just like that “ “ i’ll take care and not leave “ and all on top of this he was planning a trip with me. And in the starting of this relationship his ex girlfriend who got married called me and threatened me and she in fact bitched about me to this guy. He promised me that he will end things with her and she will not bother me. Ah for god’s sake I feel like a dumb ass for trusting this guy... Two days back he sent me a group pic where he and his married ex girlfriend was smiling. I asked him why would you send this pic at least you could have cropped your part and would have shared. He agreed that sending that pic was his mistake. Later I called him and playfully asked him to delete all his ex pictures because he had cried to me in the past that she had manipulated him hence out of care I asked him to stay away from the memories of her. That's were he got triggered and said me to stay out of his “personal things” he tells me how his 6 year relationship with her transformed him and he would like to revisit those memories it seems… honestly I felt like hitting hard rock at this point and I started to cry to my friend telling that I have been cheated. I then took time and called this guy and said hey I'll be there for you if you want to communicate about this. I'm interested in having a future with you. For which this guy breaks the ice telling me he doesn't have even little feelings about me or any love for me. Then I asked if you wanted to have a casual relationship you could have upfrontly said. At least I would have not had any expectations. Two days had gone still feeling hurt. And processing shit. To all women out there never trust words of men. Period. It might trigger some men her, but it is always a man!!!
Ye sahi hai, first get involved with some idiot, low character fellow, and the tell all the women that don't listen to any men's word? You made mistakes in your judgement, there are shit people all around us, it is us who have to be careful in investing our time and energy! Anyway, if things didn't go well, just move on, why waste time again crying over it, learn and move on. That guys don't deserve another second of your time.
True. But trying to take things from my chest off
It's fine, I understand it is difficult, especially when you are too young. Focus on yourself, career, health, hobby,l and it will auto heal. I hope you will find someone better in the future. Good luck
From my personal experience stay away from people who broke up after long relationships. They need hella lot of time to overcome it. It is needed to get past the memories and move forward and very few have the courage to do it. Stay away from emotionally unavailable, extremely stubborn and immature people.
Yes
In this YES that guy was wrong.
But girls like you do mistakes too. You knew he had previous relations, never guaranteed you the clear relations with you.
It is you who neglected these and yet preceeded because you liked him, you liked his things, deeds, whatever it is, you liked it and hoped he will be with you always.
There r plenty good guys that are too much loyal. But things with them is girls never look up to those. Because girls always like to have some spicy, odd, macho, different relationships.
Guys are too good to fool girls.
Girls are too dumb to trust and give away everything they have.
Never be physical if you want to marry that person.
First get assurance, wedding, or parent meet. Then only think about proceeding ahead step by step.
Be physical only if you want to be physically involved. No other intentions.
If you have other intentions I would recommend not to get physical until there's fixed assurance.
Always a man 😂😂 as if women never do anything.
I'm not here to do the blame game. I understand at some instances women do cheat and I'm not justifying at all. Here I got ass firing from a man who pretended to be a nice fellow who turns out to be a shill 😑
Your judgements 😅 I was never a nice fellow Whatever happened just suck it up with some guts.
Why do I always feel these kinds of posts are random fake posts?
Like a real person will not randomly reveal so much about their personal life on the internet.
You might think it is a fake post, because of your subjective opinion. I'm here to rant and take things off from my chest because I need some external validation from random internet strangers. Take it or leave it.
I still think it's fake, but if it's real then you should seek professional help, asking for opinions and validation from random strangers on the internet is not a good idea.
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