Change my mind…

You don't need a high IQ to be a great programmer. Change my mind

Haven't come across one fruitful contribution of the MBA to the human race. Change my mind.

Rhombus is monogamous (unlike rectangles or parallelograms) : Only one breadth for a length. But it doesn't mind experimenting. It can tilt both left and right to add spice to it's life. It's not vanilla like a square. Yet, whenever it tilts, there are some morals that it never leaves, the diagonals will always intersect at 90*. It has the qualities of other shapes, but it doesn't reveal unless you force it out (you get a rectangle, if you join mid points of a rhombus). Rhombus is the embodiment of what we want to be in life. We never strive to be like a square (all rigid and uptight). We are parallelograms (some of us are trapeziums), but we strive to be lif rhombus, the prettiest amongst us. First amongst equals.

I (28, Hindu Brahmin) am in love with this (30, Sikhni) girl. We are together in relationship from last 5 years. I am trying to convince my mom for marriage but she is not getting convinced. We have being in relationship for very long and she(girl) has waited for a very long time for us to get married. Everytime I talk to my mom, she says, you get married but don’t involve me. Girl’s family came to meet my mom, there also my mom denied. I said that I want to get married to this girl only. Girl’s family they are trusting me to get married to her only. They didn’t resisted much. I and girl’s family decided to get married in December, and have planned everything. I hve invited only my friends and girl’s family is also having few closed relatives. My mom is still not getting convinced. She is not talking about marriage at all. What should I do? On top of that my sister, is saying that I am rushing into it. Though it is clear my mom is not going to be convinced. What should I do? Getting stressed a lot. Anyone else who faced the same, going through it or anybody else who can share their pov or any idea around what should be done?

Sometimes I want to leave my Job, But then I realised, Sometimes I also want to jump from the 6th floor, but I don't. So keep patience and trust the process. May be something great is coming to you.

It's been 1 year and 2 months since I've been working in Pwc as a Tax associate. It seems like the work I'm doing is not a cup of my tea. I'm working well, completing my projects on time, and there are no complaints. But, I want a job where I can sleep well at night, instead of thinking about the next day's work assignment. I'm thinking of changing my profile. I've done a BBA in graduation and an MBA in finance. I want to change my career to Data Analyst or into IT. Am I thinking straight here? Shall I change my profile? Please guide me on how should I proceed with this thing. (open to all advice, comments, and criticism).

If you need 70 hours to do what others are doing in 40-50 hours, you need to git good. If you feel your employees should work 70 hours to produce meaningful impact as a team (maybe because your team is lagging behind competition), you might have failed as a founder and built a weak team. You need to git good. Change my mind.