Data engineer or devops or software engineer what to choose

Hi Guys I need help I work as a software engineer, backend java developer and I wanted to know, is Data engineering stressful compared to software engineering. I have had bad luck twice now, I switched from a very comfortable job as a fresh with 3yoe to another company, the project there was super complicated and I had to switch after 1 year, Now I am in a service based company and here I am stuck in a super toxic environment with legacy project, . The legacy project is already hard to work with and the management is peak level of toxicity. I have resigned but still during my notice period of 3 months, they are not letting me breath. My question is if Data engineering or devops are less stressful compared to software. I'm confused and scared if the next company is also toxic or have a super complicated project then I won't be able to handle it. I worked very well in my first company but now I'm seeing that software project if they are legacy or complicated then it becomes very hard to work in them. Please help me boiis, let me know your opinions.