GF Doesn’t Care About Her Looks

I am fairly decent looking. 6ft tall and light skinned but lately I am getting complex regarding my appearance. I have gotten lot more fat during these months (thanks to my sedentary lifestyle+ with little to no time for gym) and don't get much attention from girls as i earlier got. Need some solid tips(other than gymming ofc)

Can be a list too. But Only unmarried men

What’s one advice you’d give to someone who’s starting the arranged marriage process?

It's our 4th date and I am literally running out of content !

0. Try to have a call/video call before the first date. Always take their phone number/insta id before agreeing to meet, plenty of ghosters and shady folks these days. 1. Always try to meet outside for the first date. Don't go for drives. Those kinda dates almost never end up going well in the long run. Ask to meet halfway, don't go out of your way just to meet someone. 2. Don't meet someone with the expectation to start dating or getting married right away. Get to know them as friends first. Everything else later. 3. Date for 2-3 months at least before committing to be exclusive, don't rush into things and keep your options open. 4. Do not go for dates when you're feeling down or depressed. Meeting a stranger most likely won't help, it'll only distract temporarily. 5. Draw up a list of things you want and don't want in a partner. Should have at least 5-6 points on both sides. Pointless to date without knowing that much, but the list will also change with time. 6. Keep an open mind, try to be empathetic, and have fun. Don't compromise just to please the other. Learn to take a stand and draw boundaries from the start. 7. Use protection always, no matter what. And also have some self defense prepared just in case (for all genders). Having met hundreds of people through dating apps in the last decade, these are a few rules I formed for myself over time. Hope they help :)

Searching for my lobster since fckin 5yrs and no results! -Tried through contacts, turned down - Shaadi/Jeevansathi : No one is serious and the more options I get the more end up confused. Likewise for the other side. Although in online I get plethora of options,I end up wasting time and money. 95% of the matches are doing window shopping. This is way way harder then getting into FAANG. Some stats of me: Height:6'2 Age:33 Diet: Vegetarian/Teetotaler Btw feel free to reach out to me here also 😂

Dating has become the norm for relationships today, but many don't realize that it's a relatively recent development, prevalent in Western society for only about a century, and it's already causing societal issues. Previously, Indian arranged marriages were standard (different from forced marriages). Families would arrange meetings between their daughters and another family's sons. If they liked each other, they would soon plan the wedding, marry, have sex, and start families. Today, individuals are left to find their own partners. If you don't find someone in high school, university, or work, your chances of finding a partner diminish. There's also less incentive for marriage, as sex no longer requires marriage or even dating, leading to more people pursuing sex directly. This has created a skewed dynamic where fewer men pursue women due to competition, turning to porn instead, while women face exploitation by men who have abundant choices. Ultimately, near 28-30 both genders rush to the arranged marriage system to get them a partner while having their feet dipped on dating apps. In the US, This has lead to decreased marriage rates and, consequently, lower birth rates since most births occur within marriages. A decline in families results in a decreased population, putting more pressure on younger generations to support an aging population. Western nations, therefore, rely heavily on immigration, causing additional challenges. Increased single motherhood also correlates with higher crime rates, drug use, loneliness, mental health issues, and suicides P.S. I'm young and dating too. Just thoughts for a conversation on what the implications of dating for us as a society could be.