Gals: Whats your openion
The context is simple. Given this is a common platform where bois and gals; single, married or divorced exists, this is your chance to share what you are looking for in a ideal partner \ companion? As for why such a POST? The hope is that it would change few thoughts. Rules: ------ 1. Don't Spam, if you want to say something that has been already mentioned. Please don't repeat it. 2. I would ask to keep it real and feel free to call out if you see an unrealistic expectation. 3. Be Honest. You don't get anything out of this but other might. 4. If you could share stories, that would also be fine but keep it short and anonymous. PS (Bois): I invoke the Bro code, don't spam this post. Lets hear what the gals have to say.
A few more points:
6. I am very much interested in Geopolitics. So I don't want the person to oppose me if he isn't interested. He should be a centrist and not leftist or rightist
7. Have good discipline in life and not smoke. Occasional drink or hukka is fine. But not every week.
8. Should be interested in travelling
9. Should only plan for future. Should also enjoy and invest in present
10. Don't care about past. Only need loyalty in present and future.
11. Don't have problem with girl bestfriend. But should really be only friend and she should also know her limits.
12. Should be open minded and communicate everything openly and sensibly if there are any problems or have reservations or have comments or opinions about anything
13. Don't like introvert because it's so hard to know if they have anything in mind.
14. Want him to engage in family things and not be like I mind my own business and don't care about you or your family.
In one line I'd say - want a matured, responsible and patriotic religious friend.
1. A human who not only thinks about himself, but also about the society and nation. That doesn't mean he has to do always big. He could just live mindfully and responsibly not harming nature(eg. Littering, careless shopping, etc), live well that there's no harm to our neighbours or society and respectful of family, culture and nation.
2. A man who don't make fun of a woman's shortcomings, but who is understandable. Not even expecting to support, but just understand and let us be the woman we are.
3. A man who doesn't have male ego that he should always be superior and his wife shouldn't earn more than him or would have reached heights than him.
4. Should be near and hygienic - self and surrounding.
5. Should do atleast his own job properly at home if not family's. Having grown up in a patriarchal family, I am tired of serving family all the time and not finding time, voice, energy and resources for my growth. So I would want a partner who believes in sharing life, responsibilities and be more practical than I am the husband, serve me types.
Typical things like since you are a woman you should cook always, you should clean always, that's a big no.
