I don't know about brother or male friends but if a guy is really, really into you, he will reply to every damn thing.

Okay he is not really, really into me. Thank you for the reality check 🥲

Founder

Also if he is really really into you, you can just whisper the question. Why text?

Business Analyst

Machine Learning Engineer

Think it's about putting out fires. You out out the most imminent one first. If the fire is put out, amazing. 
 Otherwise if other smaller fires become big ("Answer this one too"), the you start the process again

Also, there are some questions which don't merit a response - "Why have you been talking to Domino's Pizza every night at 2AM". So, we don't answer those

@DaringTrain Hahaha don't talk to Domino's or Pizza hut 😂

But I do this, cutely put back the question that was missed. Also, keeps the conversation from dying

Those guys you are chatting with, just don’t care for you, or what you think. They reply just for the sake of it. I always reply to all questions.  
 Usually guys reply with twice the intensity, if they are really interested. If not, what you wrote,  is what they may do.

Divorcing my brother tomorrow! What is this behaviour 😂

Software Engineer

try to phase the question in a subtle way so it doesn't seem like a question.

Frontend Engineer

I must say Men talks are  more practical with versatile dynamics.

Strategy & Operations

I've seen the same behaviour in women as well haha 
  
 I guess it's more to do with answering the most relevant/important question

What I have got from the thread, apparently the other person is not interested enough

Generalist

It’s not a gender thing. Only people who care about you as much would answer multiple questions at once. And pretty stupid and entitled to just shoot the questions at the other person. Have some empathy, have some patience, decency to ask one question at a time.

We have more single core processing than multi core processing.

@Elon_Musk  @courageousDev are you guys the same person 😂

Being a man myself, I think its about answering one question extremely well. Also I kind of disagree with the premise but I will indulge for the sake of conversation. Most men also tend to be realists which weighs in on the fact that we would rather think well and answer extensively than talk quick and misinform. I have been asked the same by my gf before but I could never pinpoint the reason; also, I dont think Its difficult to answer multiple questions at once.

Listen to your gf, answer all questions no matter how silly

I've experienced it the other way round too

Sorry to break it to you, she is not into you 🫠 or maybe busy

Product Manager

Man have good single core performance ,woman have good multi core performance

Software Developer

I think it’s usually a huge thought process. The single thread process is sorta true. If I start reading a question I will start processing it, but when I see the next one it immediately supersedes and I literally forget about the previous and so on and so forth.  
 But in my mind it feels like I already took care of question 1 and question 2.  
 Only when I see those “what about this”, I would be like fuck I didn’t respond to that.  
 Maybe I am weirdly wired but this happened to me all the time. I don’t like it either

Staff Engineer

OOOH FINALLY SOMEONE ELSE SAID IT! Such a stark difference I've noticed with men and women to the point where I now make it very clear that I expect responses to all my texts if the conversation is to move forward

Lawyer

Because asking questions is easy... Answering is tough

Consultant

I guess it depends on medium, I don't even open text messages may that be on any app. But on call or in person I will give you a proper detailed answer as if I am handing over sop verbally

Systems Engineer

I have learnt the art of replying to every question individually by marking them. I have realized it's important for girls to know the answer to each one of it although one answer might answer all questions partially. 
  
 @Peahen I think your bf and brothers can learn this only when they realize it's important for girls to get answers for everything which might not be important to them.

Analytics Manager

I've noticed that the men in my life (boyfriend, brother, male friends), seems to handle one question at a time.  When I text them multiple questions, they usually only answer the last one. The sec...

I've noticed that the men in my life (boyfriend, brother, male friends), seems to handle one question at a time. 
When I text them multiple questions, they usually only answer the last one. The second last gets completely ignored. 

My female friends don't seem to have this problem. 

Why do men do this? I'm genuinely curious!

Guys, why can't you answer more than one question at a time?

Guys, why can't you answer more than one question at a time?- Grapevine

Welcome to Office Gossip's Private Community

Why is it that some men show too much interest in you for initial few weeks, like asking for ig and then ig messages. Seeing your stories just about the instant you post it. They tell you about their last break up they can't get over with but still tell you that falling in love is the most beautiful part of life and talk about wanting to settle down - until the time you show interests and hola! They suddenly change their verdicts - suddenly they're no more interested. Suddenly they get busy and don't respond to your messages anymore. 
My question to men, what do you seek from a woman when you are looking for some serious engagements. Whom should one trust with attachments?

Question to men

Data engineer

Welcome to Product Managers's Private Community

But why the f is single mode in black? Our lives aren't that dark bro 😆

A word of appreciation to the Blinkit product and design teams for being inclusive!

Program Manager

Is it normal or okay to seek for validation from other women after being married to the love of your life?
*Married for few months now 
*Love marriage
*Good looking wife

Seek validation from other women

Analyst

It's our 4th date and I am literally running out of content !

Suggest some conversation starters for her

Fathers, brothers, friends- they will be happy cheerful jolly one day and next day silence!
Won't share what's bothering them

If we ask too many times, then we are termed as nagging

Why do men just suddenly go quiet?

Why do people on this platform assume a generic username to be a man? (if the username doesn't give the gender away)

Assumption

Customer Success

A Man has lot more responsibilities than women. Family, career, love. 

Why do Men mental health being so ignored. We don't share like women do but we are going through a lot. We are not expressive by nature. 

Our society shows so much love, respect to women why not same for MEN? Why aren't they treated equal?

What do you guys feel?

Why do our society don't value MEN MENTAL HEALTH?

Welcome to Indian Startups's Private Community

In startups, blue tick people are more reliable than others.

Investor

By far the most common question I've seen from guys online is how to get matches. 

0. Get good pictures of yourself clicked if you don't have any. Strictly no selfies. Also try and avoid profiles with too many selfies (it usually means they don't have enough friends in life which is a red flag).

1. Pictures shouldn't be old/outdated. Always upload recent ones. One or two should be of you doing something interesting (with friends, some hobby/activity) and your face and body should be visible clearly. Have at least 1-2 pics where full body is visible.

2. Do not have more than 3 sentences in your bio. Don't try too hard to describe yourself in a profile (don't fill up that profile to 100% details filled). Leave some space for mystery. 

3. OBSESS over bio introduction. It should be crisp, witty and error free. It will make or break your profile.

4. Gym pics and car pics are a hit and miss. Some will go for it, others won't. Different personalities will go for different things. Upto you which kind you want to attract. 

5. If you have pics with female friends, can add one. Women trust other women to select men. If you already have healthy female friendships, that's a green flag for them. Do take permission from your friends though. And it should be a group pic, not one where it's just you and one woman. They would assume that's your gf/ex, which is red flag for many.

Just do this much and it will definitely boost your matches.

How to get matches on dating apps 101

I have handful of questions (yes I'm organised that way)

We are all single (mostly), it would be fun playing hypothetical scenarios or talking about previous episodes 😆

Those who are taken, are anyway busy 💁‍♀️

Starting tomorrow!

Guys let's do Valentine Week Dating questions

Also, men, why wouldn't you do this?

Discuss.

Guys, why can't you answer more than one question at a time?

Discover More

Office Gossip on

by Jordon Dean

Manhattan Associates

Question to men

Product Managers on

by Jordon Gabriel

Bollywood

A word of appreciation to the Blinkit product and design teams for being inclusive!

Fitness on

by Jordon Olive

EY

Seek validation from other women

Delhi NCR on

by Anise Lee

Stealth

Suggest some conversation starters for her

Adulting on

by Kendall Denver

Stealth

Why do men just suddenly go quiet?

Office Gossip on

by Matilda Carmden

Stealth

Assumption

Bangalore on

by Kendall Lee

Freshers and Interns

Why do our society don't value MEN MENTAL HEALTH?

Indian Startups on

by Matilda Everett

Startup

In startups, blue tick people are more reliable than others.

Adulting on

by Blair Lee

Stealth

How to get matches on dating apps 101

Misc on

by Anise Dean

Stealth

Guys let's do Valentine Week Dating questions

Misc on

by Isaiah Dean

Bollywood

Men, why would you do this?