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Looks like out of court settlement ;)

“Bhai, kya kar raha hai tu”

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Elon_Musk

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by Deadpool93

Porter

Worst times for men! Better to be a monster than a hero

I am a 30 M , got married in 2020 and clearly the marriage was not working out. My wife and her mother was always finding ways to control me from the beginning with all the little things and my wife started this drama like with every fight she used to leave the house and stay at her mother’s and not comeback until all the parents gets involved and me asking sorry, one time she left the house because I cooked the curry and had asked her to do roti this turned into a fight and just for that she left the house. And her mother threatened me that she won’t send her daughter back until I ask sorry. There were LOT of these instances and at one point I really got fed up and started standing up for myself, in the last fight she said she won’t come back again and I said please don’t I am also tired of this. After a month she started reaching out to me asking sorry and apologies and all but I had lost all trust in the relationship and I wanted sometime. Even if I let her in her mother would have ruined the relationship again , so I asked her since I have no trust you have to agree on that in future if we get divorced if we have kids the kids stay with me and I won’t pay any alimony. Following this discussion she lodged a fake domestic violence and dowry case against me and my family. And I filed for divorce after I seeing police station and all. I have all the evidence to prove that I am innocent but the court is taking very very long time and now she is asking for for a huge amount only the she will agree for divorce 😣

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by PepperyImplication

Edtech

Single mother asking how can I get support for my daughter's education

I am single mother earning 35000 monthly with ed tech and my daughter is very bright student of 6th standard and I am solely taking care of her since she is 7 months old independently. Her % are more than 90% always and she is also a good basket ball player. I almost had 5+ years gap in my career due to divorce case and taking care of her. In those years too I kept working and almost earned around 10k per month. I started my career working with investment banking and I had to leave that due to all these responsibilities. Now as everyone are aware about how education has became costly my all earnings are going for her education and I am only focusing to Apr and Nov as these are the months when I need to pay her school fees in instalments. Her school don't provide scholarships, I did not found any govt policies who helps for single mother (who is not widow) to help their child education for middle school. Can anyone guide me is there any Institutes or CSR activities or Sponsors who provide support for bright kids for their school fees (even not fully but may be any part possibly). If any exams are needed report card is needed we are open for it to check her criteria for the same. **I have not taken any help from my retired parents yet for this and wish not to further as well, as they have already supported a lot directly indirectly. Her father never took any responsibility and also never ever met her and asked about her. Never expected any sympathy and I am proud and strong 39 years old parent working hard for her better present and future.