Software Engineer

Baccho ko family aur love m kisi ek ka hi sath kyu milta h dono ka kyu nahi parents baccho ko kyu nahi samjhte h

Love and family

Love and family- Grapevine

Grapeviners, can you, with all honesty convince a non-believer like me into getting married and having children. If you do, my parents will send a million blessings your way. 

About me: 
- Female, 28
- mostly introverted, very selectively extroverted
- single and normally attractive
- Jinxed when it comes to relationships
- Financially independent, Net worth: 1 cr
- not bragging, but I'm decently intellectual and I can have smart conversations

My reason to resist marriage is: I'm scared it won't work out and will cause bigger problems than being single. Have seen too many unhappy marriages in family and friends. Dating scenes in recent times have only made things even more unimpressive.

Convince me to get married

Founder

I think we fall for people who are opposite to our insecurities. 
And this is beyond how they look, what they do for work, or which school they belong too (that's for arrange marriages 😂 )

I am someone who cannot keep up good habits (for long) and tend to question myself at every step.
People who are disciplined and self aware are very hot to me!

Do you relate?

My Love Theory

Consultant

Why do relatives feel that they should always talk about doing things the right way and how do they know what they say is the right way?

Some examples -
- to lose weight, focus on walking and fully come to normal BMI and then only do weight training. But, research suggests weight training to be more beneficial for both weight loss and increasing metabolism
- we should drink hot water to lose weight. What?😂
- get married early and marriage is the only way to go!
- our screen time shouldn't be more with mobile, but rather with tv
- don't use earphones, they damage ears
- Some fruits are beneficial for diabetes

Don't get me wrong, I love relatives. I just don't enjoy someone giving advice when I didn't ask them. Especially when I can't trust their source of information for anything - life advices, religion, shastra,  traditions, women's rights etc.

And, I am really tired fighting battle and tackling so much misinformation about everything. All I do is just listen to them and move on!

Wanted to know what do you guys do?

How do you deal with unsolicited advice of relatives?

Hope you people had a fantastic weekend!

Dive into any good books? Or perhaps you found a new favorite spot in the city?

I'll go first: Got lucky on a dating app. Might go on a date in the coming days :)

What did you do this weekend?

Product Engineer

She had the same reaction, years apart, for me and my sibling 

Kinda cute and irritating 

What's your story?

How did your mother react to you dating?

If you are against Dowry, why aren't you against Alimony ? or are you ?

Software Developer

Hi friend,

I am sharing my personal life with you all. 

Kindly address me what to do,

I was born in poor family, my father was a small business man my mother was a house wife. 

In 90s my grandfather was in power to rule in our house no one can disobey his decision. 

My father is two brothers. Big brother has no childers. I am the only son between them.

One day my grandfather decide to give me to big brother. At the age of 3 I was away with my real mom. 

They happily treat me as a our child, One day I also called him papa and mummy. Don't know how but I did it, takes courage 💪 for the first time and then it was usual. 

They spend around 18 years on my care. I become adult now and goes for higher study and leave the town where they stay.

So I am the link between both of my parents they both want me, somewhere there is a compition between them for me, not sure.

My real father always supports me that your first priority is your big father and mother and Then me and your real mother.

I was connected with my real father and mother after so much when I was come for further study.

I can not explain you the hole story guys. But I am connected to both of them. If they divided or share me its not there fault it was my grade father fault.

I always make sure that there bonds become strong day by day. But some conflict were there between them. 

My question is to you guys is that, I was stuck into one thing the empire my big father and mother has created should I aspect that they should give me or not. My real father says don't think such things. You will not get anything. My real father is so negative person. But he says what ever is mine you get after me. I am earning well in my life and want to create my own empire. But if they give there property it boost my speed for more. My big mother is close to her family. I think her decision will be last.

What to do your opinion 🤔 

Life is short live it or dead.

Rich dad and poor day (Personal Story)

Data scientist

If you hate your weekdays, change your job and if you hate your weekends, change your friends

Data engineer

I am working hard on my myself
Gym study work sleep
Make sure everything is completed on time
So that the schedule doesn't mess up

But Why?
I get a feeling of someone I need
To tell everything how my day went
Bhai PTA hai mai ugly hoon
Theek hai
Par yar ek limit hoti hai in thoughts k

In my WorkSpace I make sure to keep professional bonds with my team

Ghar aata hoon to 
Kayi bar phone ko dekhta hoon
Na h koi call
Message

Bus office wala phone h hai Jo phone lagta hai
PTA nhi ye sab kyu ho rha mere sath
Akele marna likha hai 
Phir bhi dimaag ghumta h hai
Dhere Dhere confidence peace self esteem
Mar rahe hai
These thoughts are winning

.....
Mere Ghar par koi nhi hai
Na h Bhai behen
1 dost hai wo busy rehta

Kayi bar marne ka bhi man karta
I close my eyes and cry sometimes
Ek normal routine wala Banda is had tak emotionally har chuka hai
Kya pap kiya hoga maine

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