Navigating Social Life Challenges: Seeking Guidance

I'm not a club kind of guy. so, that option already crossed out for me. 🙂 I go to a gym, but only girls coming are with there boyfriends or either they are too big for me (by age obviously 😅). Also don't know why but looks like my company only hires boys in tech. so, no luck out there too. 🥲🥲 Tried dating apps but no luck there. hardly getting any matches. 🥲🥲 Where should I go next?? I'm mere 23, earns desent (~1.5L a month), totally introvert so, don't know how to talk to a girl much. All I'm searching is a simple sweet girl. where Can I find those girls in bangalore??

I'm 24 yrs old girl. For the past few months, I have been struggling with anxiety and loneliness in Bangalore. I have tried everything in my knowledge and reach. I tried reaching out to people in the office which is tough because mostly are from either Andhra or WB or Karnataka, which makes it tough to fit in as they have their own groups and communicate in their native languages as they connect more. I tried bumble bff as well. But had no success girls are unresponsive and guys use it similar to date mode. I tried reaching out to my existing friends who live far away too but it became tough to meet them. I also tried to get relocated to some other city from my office, but my request got rejected. I am not a very social person, but I do want to make friends and I'm trying too but it's just not happening for me, organically or otherwise. Any suggestions or reaching out is appreciated

Hey guys,I have shifted to Hinjewadi near Pune due to hybrid working. How do I find someone to date or even be productive in personal growth I don't want to go via online route like bumble and all. Can you please suggest some events or the areas in the city where I can meet girls in real. Thanks.

What started as an Instagram-inspired social experiment has turned into a startup idea. (Refer: Men https://grapevine.in/post/808462ef-8ae0-4269-aaa3-c683ba1194bb and women https://grapevine.in/post/6bcaeffa-0cac-44a2-98a5-fc7a14786e85 survey) Few observations: 1. Our generation has moved on from orthodox thinking (baring few people) to more emotional compatibility 2. Men have more worldly expectations, while women seek spiritual features; none are right/wrong as long as they find each other. 3. Very glad that no one 'expected' the partner to take up gendered roles as dictated by society So, coming to the matchmaking platform. The idea is to have all aspects of life considered - personality, profession, family, demographics, physical attributes, etc. and have a weighted scale against them. Though I have my doubts here 1. An Introvert will need an extrovert to seek them but will be drained of social battery later. How do they match? 2. Physical attributes pull down people who aren't confident with their looks; that doesn't relate to how good/bad they are as partners. But without pictures, it will be a risky surprise element. 3. Prevent parents from creating accounts on children's behalf. Probably a social media log-in Share your thoughts on the compatibility algorithm and the problems we may face. P.S. I am not a techie, will need someone to actually build this. Will take care of marketing. Let's help someone find their soulmate ❤️ P.P.S. If this takes off, I will change my username to TimaSaparia

I'm a 25yo guy, currently working as a software engineer, earlier I used to enjoy being alone but from sometime I think I need someone to talk to share my day with and listen to theirs. I don't know whether to say this here or not, that I have never dated anyone before and don't believe in dating apps either, and not had much interaction with women as well, but I respect them in every possible way, and would like to have one as a good friend. Please DM if you feel the same and would genuinely be interested in connecting as a friend. Thanks!.

People who don't have frnds/gf/bf, what you guys do on weekends and how do you spend time. I feel so bored during weekends . Suggest something.

Hello! I am 26y old currently living in Bengaluru, working in startups, fair compensation. I am looking to find a partner for the intention of marrying in around or less than 2 years of time. Have used Bumble and Hinge a lot, went to like 30+ dates in past 2 years, dated few girls but nothing serious came out of it - I think it’s the platform’s problem (anyways, there can be a separate debate for this) There are old platforms like Shaadi.com, jeevansathi and new platform like betterhalf. I am not very sure on how to go about it? Can anyone guide me on this???