After I read many posts here, I felt like keeping my view here. This job is Shit , This city is a shithole, people are more shitter. These kinds of comments make you more superior ? Or is your mind...

After I read many posts here, I felt like keeping my view here.
This job is Shit , This city is a shithole, people are more shitter. These kinds of comments make you more superior ? Or is your mindset worse than shit ?  
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Shithole

Real Estate

Shithole- Grapevine

I have 9+ years of experience in Software Development and Managing teams at scale. I’m in Bengaluru from last 5 years and before that I was in Mumbai for 4 years.

Now I’m planning to relocate to Noida, due to following reasons:
- Want to stay relatively nearer to my home town(UP)
- Want to be accessible for my family and relatives, when they need me the most
- Want to enjoy North Indian aspect of living
- Want my kid to raise in North Indian environment 

I need suggestions in two things

- Does Noida is a right choice considering my home town is in UP?
- Which Noida sector is developed, have better infrastructure and all the basic necessities are nearby?
- Which companies pay almost in similar range comparatively to Bengaluru or Hyderabad? 
- Any other thing that I should be aware of?

Thanks for the help!

Planning to relocate from Bengaluru to Noida

Investor

Welcome to Ask Grapeviners's Private Community

Just saw another post where someone had visited Bangalore a few years back for a short duration and shared their experience. At the end, it read what has really changed that we are hearing so much about.
One of the guys starts calling North Indians trash and asking them to leave bangalore. Mind you, there have been no abuses or bad words from any North Indian on the thread. What is it that these people are afraid of? Is it the insecurity to get good jobs now that people with
 better skills are moving to Bangalore? Why are they linking their culture to their language?

What's wrong with Bangalore!

Project Manager

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Roads, Metro, Taxi Drivers arrogance, Corruption....Naah
Speak Kannada first.
I'll be as blunt as possible.
"Supporting this behaviour will make life hell for non-Kannadigas in Karnataka and Kannadigas out of Karnataka." 
This CM has done nothing but spread hatred and divide Karnataka as much as possible.

The story of how a prosperous city fell.

Management Consultant

Software Developer

There is a reason why u r asked to get out of city. And locals don't usually say that to Telugus or Tamils or Marathis. It's predominantly aimed at a section from somewhere and a major reason is people from that somewhere are generally crap(sorry for stereotyping).

1. Be grateful for the local land, culture and set up. 
Problems exist everywhere, solve it if you can, remember that you were not born in a palace.

2. Learn the local culture, actualize it, propagate it. Massive influx of immigrants wipes out the existing culture. Onus is on you to not only protect it but spread it as well. If you don't then yes, u should get the fck out.

3. India is a mix of cultures. Just how Hindi is important a language so is kannada. Telugu or Tamil or everyone. Did you even know Kannada has won 8 Jnanapith awards(highest literary honour) vs Hindi's 11 despite the miniscule population of kannada infront of Hindi?
Do you even know how rich kannada literature is? Do you really believe it deserves death in its own crown jewel(Bangalore?). Who do you think you are if you think this city should speak the language of people u come from but don't put an effort to speak the city's language.

Live and let live. Yes that's a 2 way street. Onus has always been on you. After more thab decade of handing you guys an olive branch, now the city has realised our open gesture is taken for granted. Well, make no mistake we will teach you the right way. Onus is still on you!

Don't bring this shyt to Bangalore or south cities and ruin it

Data engineer

Welcome to Moving Abroad's Private Community

Im having 9yrs of experience as a web developer in Pune and I just went for 1w trip to Dubai. Its Outstanding! Swear by God!

Planning to seek out a job there.

Will it be the best decision considering I'm having a stable job at Infosys.

I want to settle and have a family there and live a life of very high standards.

India feels like shit 

Sharks your advice will mean a lot!

Shift to Dubai for better life

I'm choosing to ignore your last statement about India unlike other triggered people in the comments and answering the actual question.  
  
 Reasons to move: 
 1) 0 tax 
 2) In general higher paying jobs but also higher cost of living (You need to evaluate this basis the offer you get compare it with your current salary after PPP) 
 3) Better quality of life (Road safety, Infra) 
 4) Opens more easier avenues to travel around Europe 
  
 Reasons to stay 
 1) Parents ( Now you'd say I plan to visit or come back but no one I know till today has come back despite having crores of savings.  
 2) Friends and social circle established here over the years 
 3) Few rules in Dubai are stricter than that of India's (You have to figure out these differences and if they work for you) 
  
 To me there seems to more upside than there is downside in moving to Dubai however both my spouse and I decided to never shift out of India for our parents.

Growth Manager

Technical Lead

Let's face it, bangalore is expensive, in terms of value for money. 
There are so many infrastructure issues.  Travel issues etc

But at the same time, Bangalore is the major leagues for tech in India. 
Events, meetups, startups all are prevalent mostly in Bangalore.

Given all this, and having a choice on where you wanna stay, what would you choose?
1. Bangalore
2. Other city?
3. Lead Nomadic life, Travel around city to city,  state to state, country to country?

Given a choice that you can stay anywhere,  would you choose Bangalore?

Consultant

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Gurgaon is a shithole! It has the worst civics sense, absolutely drenched in corruption with the natives being the worst kind of civilians!

Customer Experience

shit shit shit 😶‍🌫️😭

Founder

" You have to meet a city halfway, if you want to feel a connection with it " 

https://www.vogue.in/content/why-cant-i-just-love-bangalore

Just sharing a nice article I found ^

Bangalore haters

Welcome to Indian Startups's Private Community

3 years post-MBA exp. Currently at INR 35+ LPA. Offer in impact consulting at INR 23 LPA. Should I take it? Joining in Jan'24. Reason for switch - can't tolerate my toxic manager anymore. Have already put down my papers. 
Line of thought:
1. Take it - Something is better than nothing. At least paisa aate rahega.
2. Wait - Once I go at a lower package, difficult to demand a hike on my current one.
3. Take it, don't mention it - Companies will negotiate hard to lowball me if they know I am not working (gets worse if the LWD of my current company and the time am applying have a huge gap).

Money matters to me. But have been introspecting a lot. Will appreciate realistic input from the community.

Salary Cut

Guess the country?

Is it the same country which tops Population too? 🫠

Waste fcks. Look I am someone who wouldn't do this shaming of our cities, we are quite secure about BLR and don't really care what happens elsewhere. However your city folk stink when in Bangalore. So enjoy their gifts coming home. And have some shame

A septic tank calls a pond dirty. Ey no bro I won't learn kannada, Bengaluru sucks, we will take our startups and employess to our cities

Living in Bangalore is like participating in a daily obstacle course of stupidity these days. It's like the city is hosting the World Championships of Not Using Common Sense. Day by day, it’s getting crazy in here. People are literally just straight-away stupid.

Picture this: I'm in the metro, following the line like some good boii. But no, here come the backline breakers, sprinting ahead like they just got the memo that the free WiFi is about to expire. They won’t even have the patience to let others deboard from the station (bs ghusna hai sbko).

On the road: Small Aile is there, and these morons either walk in the middle of the road or walk slowly like they are going to maaiyat. There is no way to even overtake them.

One day a couple was literally just standing in the middle of the fucking metro entry gate, and all other people were going from sides. I was literally at my fucking limits; I controlled the urge to ask them that whatever shit they're discussing, if that is a national concern, then it’s okay; otherwise, please fuck around on the side.

And what’s up with this throwing garbage on the road thing, literally every morning on the road, tons of food, spillage, and disposals of whatnot can be seen. God, please throw it in the trash.

Rant! (Bangalore)

Lawyer

Security Analyst

Hello guys,
I have an interview lined up for non-tech specialist (L4) role in HYD office. The interviewer is based out of Seattle HQ. Just wanted to work culture of the team and the salary offered for L4 role in such team

Anyone working with the Amazon Publishing team at Chennai or Hyderabad?

Supply Chain Manager

Unrelated/pseudo-related info:

She is really fond of caffeine (Frontend developer rituals). She is like one of those coffee geeks. She has a spam account specially dedicated to various kinds of coffees around the globe. She also has a scrap book about various coffee beans.  Kinda absurd (creeped me out initially when I saw it in her bag, she keeps them in those CID waale little  specimen zip bags) but its her thing and I value her quirks. 

I am not really a fan, but I do enjoy cold coffee once in a blue moon when the mood strikes.

But for her, I would. 

Thankfully, she isnt into tea, because I just HATE chai (might trigger a lot of people, but it tastes like cardboard to me for some reason).

Every time I get stumbled by coffee aroma around me, it immediately reminds me of her voice. 

Ok enough about my weaknesses. Now give me solutions.

Can I ask my crush to "casually" join me for a cup of coffee after 6-7 interactions? Will it sound too despo? What if it gets too late if I wait?

"Macha why do you like Bangalore? Weather bro."

These tech bros can't stand normal weather, but will go through shitty infra, traffic, hooliganism, and what not for slightly better weather.

Shithole

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